got kicked out of the house cuz he's bi. his parents r like these i hate bi gay ppl kinda ppl.
and he's staying with me right now. and im trynig tog et his parents to take him back and stuff. but they wont. and its not like he's a bad kid, he maeks straight a's, and never gets in trouble. soo wat are some things i can do to maybe get his parents to take him bck?
2006-12-10 13:51:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he needs to know that his parents love him and that their son loves them. even though they don't condone his lifestyle be by his side.
2006-12-10 13:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by youngj042004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Synyster,,
Don’t know that you can… Any parent’s who are so upset over their child being gay/bi that they kid their own child out of their house, obviously don’t love their child as they should.
As you point out, he sounds like a good kid, gets good grades, doesn’t get into trouble, etc.. they know that but still chose to reject their son. Which is the real crux here anyway, being rejected.(which your friend is really feeling right now!) You might try some educational materials for his parents to read, or invite them to a group of “parents of gay/bi children” or whatever the group name may happen to be. If you know any other gay/bi kids maybe their parent’s would be willing to talk with your friend’s parents? Are there some other family members of your friend who would be willing to intercede on his behalf with the parents ??
Main thing is your friend is really hurting right now, be his friend and listen to him, effectively communicate with him. Encourage him to get into counseling or any kind of help group that is available!!
2006-12-10 14:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make his parents do anything. you need to help your friend find other housing
2006-12-10 13:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by Presh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that he is their own. and just because he is different doesn't mean they shouldn't love him anymore. after all he is their son. tell them how good of a person and student he is.
2006-12-10 13:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell his parents that they should be more open minded, or go to hell cuz their son is great..
2006-12-10 13:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really nothing because if they don't accept him for who he is then you can't change that. just help him realize that life goes on and him help move on
2006-12-10 14:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HIM STAY WITH YOU FOR AS LONG AS HE NEEDS TO.
DON'T PUSH HIM TO GO BACK HOME TO SOON.
HIS PARENTS ARE STILL UP-SET.
MAYBE YOUR PARENTS CAN TALK TO HIS PARENTS.
2006-12-10 16:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make them do anything that they don't want to do
2006-12-10 13:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋