i have a crush on my guy friend.
i say guy friend, but we're only usually just hi-bye friends, we don't hang out afterschool or anything.
i'm a tomboy, so i'm pretty relaxed and easy-going around guys, so i dont suddenly wanna start flirting with him either (which is the answers i got the last time i posted a question like this), I just want to further my friendship with him.
Get to know him better, become better friends with him.
How would you do that?
2006-12-08 15:06:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing to do is to get a small group of friends together and invite him too. that will avoid and awkward silences that could happen if it was just the two of you right away. once you start hanging out and talking more then make the group smaller until is just one on one time. also instant messaging is a great idea to start talking more. first start off with a question about homework if your shy. then you can continue the convo with whats up? and other things to get to know him better.
2006-12-08 15:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by xo marie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is go where he is. If your a tomboy anyway then show up at the basketball or something and be natural ask questions and let him see your real personality. Don't flirt if your not that girl it will just come off as silly and weird. BE YOURSELF!! If he likes you he'll see the real you just show up!!
Good Luck
2006-12-08 15:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by j_nicole1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should start saying more than hi and bye to him. try to have a conversation more than you normally do. invite him to hang out afterschool sometime. gradually become better and better friends. after you are really good friends then you can start flirting. Good Luck!
2006-12-08 15:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Adèle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in middle school too and being in a middle school of 1000 something kids is hacked. but i find way to understand by hearing problems. so i am not only helping u i am helping myself so i will give u the best advice i can give. since u r a tomboy like u say than don't flirt just hang out with him more try not to act like total guy and don't make it seem so obvious just relax. and r u sure u r a tom boy hear somethings tomboys do
1) burping in public on purpose
2) dressing like a boy
3)rough housing ( like in football but don't change your self all of sudden for him who knows he could like u they u r. u could tell if he like's if he picks the most stupid topics to talk about to u then he could like u but it not the only sign hope u like my advice
2006-12-08 15:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by alex b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to him; is it that hard? Ask him about any movies he's seen or if he's on a sports team ask him about his last game or whatever. Or, if he as pictures of stuff on his binder (alot of people do this at my school) then ask to see his binder and ask him about the pictures. But, for me, the easiest way is to find a seat next to or around him if you have any classes with him.
2006-12-08 15:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some balls honey. Ask him to hang out after school. Or ask him to the next dance that comes up. Or heres a crazy suggestion. Tell him how you feel. However, gusy are dumb. Even still to me, all these years later.
2006-12-08 15:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by discokevin2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im in middle school to and what i would do is get some friends together amd just go to the mall or watch a movie or something then ask him if he would like to go (just as a friend) then do it more and more and you'll get to know him and you never know maybe he will start to ask you and ask you out?
2006-12-08 15:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him when u see he like hey how u doin don't just started talkin about any thing ask about the thing he like as if its for school and when u see him the next time u talk about the things he like but ( you are a tomboy so don't change who u are be real but make show u look like for him and u are happy with it) so take ur time and and u mayhave ur man
2006-12-08 15:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by omarionbabygirl2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he is into like sports cars hunting what not... then join into a conversation with him or his buddies..... If you don;t want to flirt..... get his attention by liking the things he does and get to know him better through your interests
2006-12-08 15:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to him more and more. Then after a while get to know him better, then ask him out but by that time he will probably have already have asked you out and you will both be happily ever after. i am in (7th grade) middle school too so take my advice. it will work guarenteed!
2006-12-08 15:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by partyalldaydanceallnight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋