Ok, so tonight there was a game @ my highschool and my boyfriend decides to sit somewhere else...he acts all happy and says hey when he sees me but yet he doent sit w/ me ever anywhere, keeps breakn movie dates, and refuses to be alone w/ me? ( he dont "trust" himself alone?? Bull) So I need some serious advice, plz help!!!!
2006-12-08 14:42:07 · 31 answers · asked by K8T M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes dump him for good
2006-12-08 14:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There's no reason you should feel the need to be in a committed relationship while in high school. You are simply in no position to settle down, get married and start your life together. Before you do any of that you have to get an education, chose what you want to be and what you want out of life, for yourself, alone, learn to love yourself, and work toward your goals. Only when you're focused and driven by passion for what you want, can you even think about forming a committed relationship with someone who is equally focused, driven, and together you can build your life together, working toward your individual goals, while having a new goal of success together.
In the mean time you should only "date." And so you aren't hurting or leading anyone along, you have to let them know from the start that your goal in dating them is simply to have fun, not to form a relationship. Yes it can still be romantic and sexual, but what it isn't is permanent nor even long term. To do that you have to take care of yourself, be secure in being with yourself, don't lose focus on your goals, don't get pregnant, and don't think that boy in high school will in any way resemble the man he will be at 21, 30, 35, etc. And neither will you.
2006-12-08 22:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go with what your gut tells you. It's easy for someone like me to say yeah it sounds like you should break up with this guy but I have never meet you nor him. I think that if you are asking a question like this you already know what you should do. You should be with some that wants to be around you. It's an amazing feeling when you and the person you are with want to be together. Go with your gut it will lead in the right direction. Good Luck!!
2006-12-08 22:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by adora z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Henna, If your asking a kid how good she is in bed, by doing your test, then perhaps we should start mentioning your name and IP address to the peadophilia department of the state police and to yahoo.
As for your boyfriend, why bother going through something that makes your life hell. There are plenty of other boys in your school, so make him jealous.
2006-12-08 22:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be having some problems of his own. Communication is key! Tell him how you feel, example: "I feel like you are avoidning me." Hopefully, that'll open him up. Maybe he really doesnt trust himself and is trying to be good to you. Either way, realize that its not gonna work unless both of you are in the same page when it comes to your feelings about the relationship and eachothers needs. Good Luck.
2006-12-08 22:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by Broken ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if a guy was treating me the way your boyfriend is treating you i would dump him so fast it aint even funny! do not let him just leave you hangin at the movies and ditch you make him feel bad for it. and he doesnt want to be alone with you? obviously he aint that comfortable around you! i think you just need to dump him... he sounds like he is not worth your time and that you can do way better and get some one who respetcs you!
2006-12-08 22:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by courtney5839 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not good enough for you. Find someone who will give you the attention you deserve - whether it's alone time or at school functions. Trust your instinct - something is telling you that something is just not right.
2006-12-08 22:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by samthecatrocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell u what it iz commin 4rm a boy that just broke up with his girl. See what it is he don't feel right around you he feels violated. It's not that he don't like you cuz he do he just don't feel right around you. See us boys are use to bein around our boys, not chicks. But Just give him some time. I mean that's how I felt and most of my friends feel like that to, but who knows he might feel diffrent. But do not I repeat do not break up with him cuz 9 times out of 10 he's gonna find some1 else and trust me it hurt to see some 1 else love the 1 u love.
2006-12-08 22:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by aLawrence 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't sound like much of a boyfriend. Time to move on. If he is really interested he'll be back if not move on and find someone else.
2006-12-08 22:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you act like it doesn't bother where he sits ar what he does then he will come around. Go have fun with your friends(both male & female). The more you don't need/or him the more he wants you!!
2006-12-08 22:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by SHERRI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him......he's an ***. Its that simple. You deserve a guy that'll give you all the attention in the world. You deserve a guy who's gonna call you every five minutes to say he loves you.
2006-12-08 22:45:36 · answer #11 · answered by Abby C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋