for example been with him or 4 years and he cheated and you have kids should you give him another chance or kick him to the curve... and do you think so would it ever work?
2006-12-08 13:21:51 · 16 answers · asked by suleimasoto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Follow your heart. If you want to give it another chance then go for it. But if you stay with him, you have to forgive him. That is only way it will work. You know deep down in you gut, if you can forgive him. Listen to yourself and all the answer come. It sounds cheesy but it really works. No one can judge you for trying to make it work. Nobody knows what they would do in that situation until it happens to them.
2006-12-08 14:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Peaches27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd kick him to the curve...........but then again on the other hand he did give me another chance.
But hay we have been married for 8 years now so who knows, it could all work out in the end.
2006-12-08 13:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there Sulie,
man, I dont know what to tell you. did he cheat on you? if so, I find it would be hard to trust him again. If you did let him stay, he would have to make a drastic change, thats for sure. But, I believe in the old saying" once a cheater, always a cheater" thats just my thoughts. Feel free to e-mail me if you would like to talk some more, ok. six7@hotmail.com
Have a good evening :)
2006-12-08 13:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by six7foru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a guy that he cheated and then she left him and moved on and hella long after he was still regreting waht he did and he told me he wont ever do it again i mean it depends if hes just a playa and how many times he did it cuz if he did it more then once then maybe he feels confortable while he cheats so he will keep doing just listen to your heart
2006-12-08 13:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally up to you. Me personally, I would kick him to the curb. Trust is broken when cheating happens. It's hard, if not impossible, to regain that trust. Not all guys, but most guys, will cheat again if the circumstances are right. Not to mention any disease he may have picked up and passed on to you.
2006-12-08 17:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves a second chance, everyone makes mistakes. but ....
DONT GIVE 3RD OR 4TH CHANCES.
TAKE HIM back if hes begging. BUT under the terms that he cant go anywhere without you, he must come straight home after work, he must always answer his cell , he cant even go out with friends without you. If he isnt willing, then you know he intends on doing it again, or still seeing the *****. Dont let him tell you that he needs space or time with the guys, because thats bull sh!t. He has a family and if he really wants to hang out with friends, have them come over to hang out with him at your home, play poker, card games, video games, drink mixed drinks, eat and have fun. If he stresses that he needs alone time away from you and the kids, its a front, he is really intending on seeing other women at the clubs, flirting, meeting new girls, seeing the old mistress, whatever ...you name it.
i know cause so many of my closest friends and co-workers, and friends of friends and myself have been there and we know how it works. so only take him back under YOUR TERMS. put your foot down. if he aint willing, and you still take him back, look out, i bet you hes going to do it again.
2006-12-08 18:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one cheats without a reason, there must have been something in your relationship that he felt he needed that wasn't being fulfilled.
It takes 2 to make or break any relationship.
If you can discuss it with him and correct the problem your relationship can be salvaged.
The big question is, do you want to?
2006-12-08 15:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's been my experience that once your partner has cheated, it doesn't work out... sorry to say. What is your feeling on this?? Can you forgive him for his cheating???
I feel badly for your children and for you. I know what it's like to be cheated on & to have a child added to the mix.... it sucks. I myself am having the toughest time getting past the cheating & can't trust him as far as I can throw her.
Good Luck hon, my heart goes out to you.
2006-12-08 13:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on the consequence you may face, A.I.D.S. or another S.T.D. trust, etc.
Your choice completly, but if your with someone who does not appreciate what they have, time to go, you deserve better, but again, you know what a divorce or other action may do so think it over.
2006-12-08 13:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly have faith me adult men do stupid issues and many of the time we dont comprehend why. so a techniques as your question is going it may count. If he cheated plenty or if it grow to be extra then one time then heck no. If it grow to be in simple terms as quickly as then he might desire to be incredibly regretfull and could in no way cheat back yet while he has achieved it extra then a pair of situations he will extra then probable do it back
2016-12-13 05:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by glynis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋