Hubby got sick a few days ago and even came home from work early yesterday. He does have a cold with some coughing ect..., but he felt good enough for sex when he got home. I asked if we could go to the casino last night but he said he didn't feel like it...Today, he called in sick and he is coughing and stuffed a little but is still acting all frisky. I told him if he feels good enough to be frisky I wanted to go to the casino with him this evening. He said "NO I don't feel good and don't want to go." I told him I would go by myself but he didn't like that either. Should hubby suck it up and take me to the casino since he feels good enough for sex and all or am I being unresonable???
2006-12-08 06:34:45 · 22 answers · asked by Lucinda M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you're being unreasonable. you should be flattered that he still finds you desirable when he's ill
2006-12-08 06:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by kapute2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're being unreasonable. He's your husband and he doesn't feel well. The sex is actually good for him in terms of getting over this cold and he's probably just like my BF...he has the opportunity to have sex during the day and that's maybe why he's so turned on. The casino's gonna be smokey and dirty and I don't blame him for not wanting to go. Take care of him. Nurse him and let him have sex and just be a good wife. I'm sure he'll take you once he feels better!
2006-12-08 06:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! I thought women were supposed to be nurturing? How would you feel if you were sick and he wanted you to go to a monster truck rally or something? People can be sicker the next day than they were the previous one. And unless a man is on his DEATHBED (and maybe not even then!) he's going to want sex. They don't care if they're leg is amputated from the knee down, they want sex! He's trying to get you to take care of him. Be a good wife and treat him like the big baby that he is and let him repay you for your "sacrifice" later. (sarcasm, sorry) Now go make him some chicken soup! And later when you want that pretty necklace in the store window, you can remind him of how you nursed him back to health.
2006-12-08 06:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex requires maybe 20-40 min of activity and then he gets to sleep. Casino requires dressing up, standing around, loud noises, flashing lights, general suckiness for those not feeling well.
You are being selfish. When you are sick maybe your hubby should go out and act like a selfish single?
2006-12-08 06:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is in a bed and is relaxing...the casino is not. Take care of the old guy, i mean s__t he did call in sick from work...what makes you think he's good for the casino? just because he can move his hips around between the sheets doesn't mean he's ready for war. be a wifey, the guy works hard obviously give him till the weekend or something, damn!
2006-12-08 07:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by DRNOPE 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are the most powerful thing in his life. You need to suck it up. Forget the casino and baby him this evening. This will pay off better than the casino ever could!
2006-12-08 06:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by curious george 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't you remember your vows in sickness and in health please stay with your hubby and help him overcome this cold. You will only be worried about him when you are playing the slots anyways
spend your money on some chicken soup and some cough medicine and stay home don't be a worthless wife it is your job to care for those you love.
I bet whenever you have been sick he hasn't ran off to the casino wake up please.
2006-12-08 06:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are not being unreasonable, you are being a total *********!!! He can be horny at home even if he is sick, going to the casino involves going out in the cold, until god knows how late in the evening, being around people... GROW UP, go to the casino when he is better, if you were sick you would not want to go anywhere either.
2006-12-08 06:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by marisanj 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl stay home with your man the casino will b der next week.
2006-12-08 06:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by TRA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cough is caused by a number of ailments.
It can be treated by over the counter medicines
or home remedies. More information available
at http://ailments.in/cough.html
2006-12-09 02:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by parijat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u would feel bad while your at the casino and your hoby is at home and won't have a good time so wait until he gets better and u 2 can go together
2006-12-08 06:37:56 · answer #11 · answered by zoey z 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋