omg...i am insecure i guess...if I see a really pretty girl, i get innsecure and i feel like my bf is gunna leave me fo someone prettier..even though everyone thinks i'm beautiful- I'M personally insecure and i think it will eventually drive my bf away...i cant heelp but to be self-consious...i feel ugly compared to celebrites and stuff but he tells me i'm beautiful...man i don't know what to do...
2006-12-08 06:10:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need a outside opinion lets see a pic of you and then i'll let you know if you got anything to worry about
2006-12-08 06:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in big trouble then because there will always be people better looking, better socially placed etc then you and everyone else alive is. Realizing that these people have the same problems as you can help. The fact that your mate finds you beautiful should be enough to satisfy you, and after all is the most important. What does it matter what others think of your appearance so long as your man finds you attractive. Be grateful for all you have, especially at this time of year, as there are a lot of less fortunate people. And don't dwell on this or it may very well be a turn off for your boyfriend and he may get tired of it regardless of how beautiful you are on the outside. After all it truly is your inner beauty that people find the most attractive.
2006-12-08 06:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, if you haven't figured this out yet, I guess I'll have to tell you, That is what Celebs do, they make u insecure so you can buy their products or clothes etc. You need to look yourself in the mirror and accept who u are and just be lucky that u have a beautiful relationship and that everything is fine, And Hun someone don't tell you ur beautiful if ur not (get real, if they say it then they probably mean it). As for Celebs ignore them and just live ur life happy, raise ur head soldier and march proudly,... LOL, Take care.
2006-12-08 06:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably are beautiful. What you need is some confidence and self esteem. You have an inner beauty that others see, you just need to see it yourself. You need to find your self worth and focus on what's good about you. Positive self-esteem is the immune system of the spirit, helping an individual face life problems and bounce back from adversity.
Self-esteem is built upon the experience of success. Think of it as a circular process. When people experience success, they grow in self-confidence. As self-confidence grows, they feel empowered to face new challenges. As they succeed in confronting each challenge, they develop the capacity to cope with whatever life throws their way. That feeling leads to further growth of self-confidence, self-reliance and self-esteem. You need to find your successes and qualities and go from there.
2006-12-08 06:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that by being insecure and acting upon it that you are being selfish? Of course there are more beautiful or pretty people than you. Even super models are insecure and they are beautiful. Don't focus on what is on the outside, focus on what is on the inside. And yes if your insecurity continues it will definitley push him away.
2006-12-08 06:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Firienscatha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity problems can lead to the end of a relationship if they are severe. I would talk to a counselor about it and they can help you figure out ways to build up your self esteem. I wouldn't do it for anyone but yourself though, you are worth it to take care of you.
2006-12-08 06:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am the same way. i get like that all the time but just remember that don't care about how others look even if u think their pretty just know that Ur u and yoUr b/f loves u and thinks ur beautifull
thats all that matters right so hope this help happy holdays
2006-12-08 06:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by theyknowmeaslilb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well don't not let nobody make you feel like you are not beautiful because you are beautiful in your own way. everyone is beautiful in your own way . so no matter how ugly you THINK you is ,in you are still very beautiful in your own way(if you are wondering if i am gay no i am not) if you need any more help email me at keyla_brown123@yahoo.com
2006-12-08 06:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Complicated 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your man tells you that your beautiful why worry if he tells you he love you why would he cheat its when your insecure men tend to cheat on his girl because the girls do not trust them. so there is no need to be insecure
2006-12-08 06:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by Lamoya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and believe he is there with you because he wants to be. You cant make anyone do anything they dont want to do. If he is going to leave you cant stop it. Just enjoy him day by day and you will be fine.
2006-12-08 06:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by remailer000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋