If you were going to invite another girl in the bedroom with you and your girlfriend (and it's yoru girlfriends idea), Would it matter to you if the woman that is coming in is more attractive than your woman? Or are you just going to be so turned on by the situation that it is not going to matter one way or another.
My concern is that once we do this, he is going to want the other woman again and think about doing her again. What are your thoughts on this.
*Please don't respond if you are just going to tell me that you would never do this or you think its gross
2006-12-08 05:57:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was confronted with this same situation when I started my relationship. At first its kind of a werid feeling knowing that your partner wants to sleep with somebody else. But once you two start to talk about it you'll see what I mean. But once we started talking about it It didn't matter wether or not the other girl looked way better than my girlfriend you'll see that most likely he will want to bring one of your friends into the threesome. In his mind if he loves you that much nobody can look better than you but if you want to sleep with another girl then he may have a problem with that as I did. Your concern is completely justified. He may want the other girl after you all have this threesome or he may not. He may continusioly ask you for more threesomes so it doesn't look like he is cheating since you both agreed to it. But its a risk that you are willing to take if you do go through with this threesome. He will think that you are hotter for it but it may damage your relationship in the long run giving him the idea that its ok to sleep with other women while still with you.
2006-12-08 07:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the #1 reason my girl wont have a threesome with me. Damn u got a lucky bf. Anyway I think he'd be just turned on by the situation, he wont be more attractive to the other woman than you, he's gonna love u even more for even doing this. And dont think that if he wants to do it again that he just wants to see her, any guy would want to have a thresome a lot more than one time. So go for it hone! More women need to be like you.
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2006-12-08 14:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by c_wilson2k5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, naturally he will perhaps want the other girl again. Are you saying this is going to happen once and that's it? That's a bit unrealistic don't you think? And what if the gal enjoys you guys and wishes to repeat from time to time and it never occurs again, she might feel hurt. Is she a mutual friend? Are you willing to risk your friendship with her over one encounter? Think long and contemplate all the pros and cons.
2006-12-08 14:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by donewithyahooanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you this... once you do this he will jack off thinking about this forever....i am a man and if my girl let me do this that would be awesome.. you are one bad asssss chick.....but seriously he will be so turned on that it wont matter...and yes he will still think about it later but that;s normal after being so overwelmed by you letting him do this....He will still have a hard on the next week after.......did I mention that you are one bad assss chick.....HEY if you have a problem with him and he getsw attached to her email me jeffmarcelluspbl@yahoo.com........I dont get attatched !!!!!!
2006-12-08 14:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by jeffmarcelluspbl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already feel insecure about inviting your friend, moving forward would make things worst, because you'd wonder all kinds of things about your man, and now your friend, if you friend likes him and he likes your friend, what if they just decide to leave you back. I mean your taking a risk, why not keep things separate, until you feel more comfortable?
2006-12-08 14:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by David S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I agreed to it, I would let my partner choose who she wanted to join us. I wouldn't make any comments or suggestions because then she would always wonder if I was more attracted to the other girl than I was to her. It makes the whole situation stickier than it already would be.
2006-12-08 14:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if a woman isn't good enuff to take care of me herself she don't need to be in my bed in the first place. Maybe you could take turns with your friend
2006-12-08 14:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Meatball ;) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truth. He's gonna want to do her again, with you or and without you. Adding a third is not a good idea. It will mess with your head, especially if you have issues with adequacy.
2006-12-08 14:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threesomes are very exciting but you have to be comfortable with the idea.
2006-12-08 14:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it would matter to me. just make sure you moan louder or are better sexually than her and your man should be very appreciative of this. i would die to do that. thats awesome. it shouldnt really matter he should just be so turned on by it that it wont matter either way..................YOU ARE FREAKIN AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-08 14:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Crazy ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋