2006-12-07 14:12:32 · 27 answers · asked by jeff b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its called an emotional affair. I just went through this with my ex. Yeah its wrong. And yeah I always truly loved him.
Google the term emotional affair and you will find out why it is wrong. Its really EXTREMELY hard to let go of a hs sweetie if you truly loved them... LET ME TELL YA!
I thought if I told my husband I was talking to my ex and acted like I wasn't hiding anything, he would just let us be friends. But then everytime my phone rang, my husband told our children that my BOYFRIEND was calling.
There was no way in hell my ex and I could get back together. But my husband was not happy about the situation at all.
2006-12-07 14:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong . First you have to understand that you are married and it is your duty as a husband to love your wife. Second, it does not make sense going back to the old flame because that would mean a betrayal on your part. Don't be fooled by satan's tricks that you can get away with your desires without sinning against your wife, This is how people get hooked on illicit affairs of the heart, it started with a thought, then followed by lust, then pursue their evil desires and before you know it, you ended up messing up your marriage. The result will be a broken home, separated couples with grieving innocent children. So before even giving it a try, think carefully and let conscience bother you a bit. LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP. LOL,
2006-12-07 14:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you even be asking this question I think you know the answer. It is very wrong stop doing it now before you ruine your marriage. Dont think you'll get with your ex because she's an ex for a reason and remember no matter how much you want to think people dont they change and I can almost promise you she is not the same person she was in HS. Would you want your wife emailing her former HS flame? I doubt it show your wife the respect she deserves and stop emailing that woman
2006-12-07 14:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong!!! You married your wife!!! You promised to be faithful and to love her till death do you part. Your just wanting those old feelings you had with your ex but you need to understand she is your ex and for some reason it did not work out with the two of you. People change after high school and you need to understand that things will be totally different then what you expect if you were to leave your wife and start a romance with this other girl.
2006-12-07 16:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely. Every intimate moment you spend even in conversation with this other woman is betraying your wife. How would you feel if your wife were doing this?
If you are saying that you've always loved the high school flame, forget about rekindling an old romance; people change over the years...drastically.
2006-12-07 15:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, yeah! I think is it wrong to not tell your wife that you are emailing someone that you were once in love with. I would consider it very close to cheating. Think about whether or not you would want your wife sneaking behind your back to email an old flame of her's.
2006-12-07 14:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mailing your high school sweetheart? No. Behind your wife's back? Yes. You never forget your first girl, and it's okay to remember those days, but not at the expense of the present. Try reminding yourself why you married your wife in the first place.
2006-12-07 14:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by rtanys 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anything you can't reveal to your wife is wrong. She is supposed to be your life's partner yet you are keeping her out of this part of your life. That's how a lot of businesses go belly up, one partner hides the books from the other parnter and one day they are so broke they have to file bankruptcy and sell the business and take a loss...basically you're heading for the same thing only in marriage it's called divorce court.
2006-12-07 14:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youve really always loved the old flame then youre not completely dedicated to your wife and thats dishonest. If your wife isnt THE ONE then you shouldnt be together. Why arent you with the old flame if you love her so much?
2006-12-07 14:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by PenguinsWife 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You might be enjoying the excitement of emailing your old flame right now. But, is it really worth losing your wife and your children's trust? I hope your old flame is worth it!
2006-12-07 14:29:26 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋