How can i let my marriage be one with endless enjoyment, love, respect, peace, i want my husband and i to be happy and share a bond. and how do i/we keep our sex life great and fun, any tips or tricks anyone?
2006-12-07 06:27:54 · 7 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're dealing with way too many issues in one sentence. I think you should look into counseling to help you work through the underlying issues together. It doesn't mean you're necessarily on the rocks, just that things can be better. You need a therapist to help you as a couple work through your routines and patterns and figure out what makes you do what you do.
2006-12-07 06:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best way to have a great marriage and sex fun is to think like a child. Pay attention to kids and start thinking the same way. Kids like to have a good time and are rarely serious. You should be the same way--watch movies like Shrek or Over the Hedge enough until your humor/joy threshold falls. Collect jokes, find one new one a week. Jay Leno is great and you should find a funny radio station to listen to in the morning. Many marraiges are way too serious. People are designed for a good time and that includes marraige. Kids are the model because in relationships they have no expectations about how someone else should behave--put this outlook in your marriage and lightenup on your partner. Kids are very forgiving and this is key to a fun marriage; overflow with forgiveness. Pull gags on your spouse--I do this regularly and we have a good time. As you spend time with funny movies and jokes you will begin to think funny and then joke around with your spouse much more, like a kid and have more fun. Also, thinking funny builds a wall of protection for you when your spouse or others tear you down, the arrows just bounce off. This strengthens your marriage and makes you happier, building enormous peace reserves for you and your marriage. Intimacy between a man and woman can be magical if you are willing to be childlike and gentle for your husband in order to get there. Most adults are way too serious and hardhearted.
2006-12-10 09:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lighthearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep dreaming, you will never have endless enjoyment, or peace! You have to work at a marriage. It doesn't just fall in the great category. A marriage is very hard work. I've never been married, but i have been in relationships that were more like a marriage, just ended one matter of fact!
2006-12-07 14:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Manna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to a happy marriage. Without this your marriage wont get very far. I found out also that compromise is a big thing. As for your sex life go as far as you are both comfy with.
2006-12-07 14:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you and hubby been together? How do the two of you deal with money? How about having kids? Your jobs? Your friends and relatives? Your different moods?
You are idealistic right now; come back and discuss your marriage a year or two from now. Good luck.
2006-12-07 14:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by TarKettle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married going on 20 years. My wife and I have had great times and bad times. Great Sx and so so sx. She wants more romance and I don't get it. I want more you know and she doesn't get it. Its different for men than it is for women. So talk, relax and have fun.
2006-12-07 14:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by RuffNTuff 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mutual love, caring, & respect. Especially respect.
2006-12-07 14:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by luckyaz128 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋