none of us did anything to keep the relationship going but it seems to me I could be having lots of fun with him and his friends, because I'm not living in my home town and it's hard to get friends
2006-12-07 06:13:07 · 16 answers · asked by MAR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
none of us broke it off, I said I didn't want a relationship, so maybe it was me
2006-12-07 06:15:46 · update #1
LOL
Who broke it off? officially?
I ask because if you broke it off, its kinda cheesy to call him and be his "friend" so that you can meet other guys and have "lots of fun".
Thats what it comes down to. You broke it off, now you are lonely and want to meet other people (which obviously will include guys......guys hit on girls....you get hit on and go out with a guy....it happens)
It wouldn't be as bad if you already had a few female friends and wanted to intro them to him and his friends.
2006-12-07 06:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by Peter X. Long 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not give much detail to this. do you two still talk? It would be cruel, yes. From the reasons you gave for the call, it seems to me that you want friends and hangouts but you would be actually using him after you two broke up. breakups hurt and they cause hate and sadness no matter what the situation is. Don't open up painful pages in his life unless you are interested in him personally. move on and try to make it on your own. Good luck
2006-12-07 06:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's selfish. You let him go so, let him go.
Join a gym, or a book club at the library, or volunteer at the hospital auxilliary, be a big sister, join a tennis club or yacht club or any club. Take a night class, learn a new language, take music lessons.
I don't want to be mean but calling him is the lazy way. Don't use him. Take control of your life.
2006-12-07 06:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 04:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, well ur ex is obviously gonna think that you want to get back even though ur intension is different. I would rather look for new friends and do new start. There are plenty handsome men like me out there, all you have to do is keep your eyes open, lol.
2006-12-07 06:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, you broke it off with him because you didn't want a relationship. - with him, or anyone at all?
Now, you want to be his "friend" so you can hang out with his friends, too, because now he's out having fun, and you want to get in on it.
Does this mean you also want to date one of his other friends?
I wouldn't be friends with you if I were him.
Why open old wounds? And, you hanging around him would do just that.
2006-12-07 06:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not really cruel to call him up unless you broke up on bad terms or you hurt him. if you do decide to call him but you dont want a relationship, dont give him any indication at all that you might want to get back together.
2006-12-07 06:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by NA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its jus a friend that you are looking for then dont call him. besides he might not entertain the idea of hanging out with an ex. you dont even know if he has a new girlfriend. and i wouldnt use the word cruel, more like inappropriate. your era is over hun, dont you have people in your hometown that you can call?
2006-12-07 06:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't think he still has a thing for you and you think you guys can be friends without anything physical happening, then go ahead and call.
2006-12-07 06:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if he has any hint of feelings left for you. If he does, it might not be good for him. I once likened this kind of situation (talking a lot to someone you still have feelings for) to picking at a scab.
2006-12-07 06:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by Meriwether R. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋