well i think so at least. We had been chatting for a while about plans for New Years, and he made me promise to go and stay woth him so we could go out, he wouldnt let go of me till i had said yes, adn it was after this that he said it, or i think he did, lol We at a club so the music was very loud and he was very drunk so not very coherent so im not entirely sure thats what he was getting at.
Now i dont really know what to do about this, he was drunk (very it was his 21st birthday) so probably doesnt remember so dont really think i should bring it up, but he is one of my best friends ands and thats very important to me. Any advice?
2006-12-07 05:53:56 · 11 answers · asked by Lucy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It has been suggested by other people before that he liked me, but ive always assumed they just jumping to conclusions because we are such close friends.
2006-12-07 06:16:45 · update #1
He was just drunk and horny....you know how guys are....don't fall so low...
Ignore it and see if he ever talks about this when he's in his senses...
2006-12-07 05:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sairax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a boy mate whos always asking me to sleep with him. He does it in such a way that can be classed as a joke but i no if i sed yes he wouldnt say no.
I just ignore it, or joke about it but thats our relationship.
If he was drunk then definitely ignore it. He may fancy you, but whats wrong with that. As long as he doesnt start to make you feel uncomfortble when hes sobre, thats ok.
I wouldnt bring it up. It will only cause an embarrassing situation, remember he was drunk.
However, if you cant get it out of your head why not ask a mate that is both his and yours, who you can trust, what to do. This will be of more use as this mate will know both of you better than i do.
2006-12-07 06:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by devil_pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. My partner of 7 years propositioned every woman in the room on his last birthday he was so drunk and has no recollection of it at all - I like ot remind him every now and then when i want taking to an expensive restaurant!
Chances are your friend was so drunk that he wasn't aware what he was saying and if you are not sure he said that then leave it be. If he was serious he'll bring it up again I'm sure. Or if you fancy him why not make a move yourself?
2006-12-07 06:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fist thing you need to to is find out if he actually meant what he said or whether it was just the drink talking. If he did mean it, don't do it. I've been in this situation before and things just get awkward after you cross that friendship line.
2006-12-07 06:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by Spencer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah all too sloppy. Unless that's what you want, maybe he did say that when drunk, which he would have meant. If you are attractive then who could blame him. Just do it whats the harm just make him thank me after.
2006-12-07 06:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the night of his life and the next day continue to be his friend.
2006-12-07 05:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was that drunk, don't bring it up. If he remembers he might bring it up and then you can tell him how you feel at that point.
2006-12-07 05:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by Raven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him..the drunken bum..thats no way to treat a lady. have sex with me instead ...I'm sober saying it
2006-12-07 05:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lone Wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep shtum
2006-12-07 06:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by Music fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just forget about this.
2006-12-07 08:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋