my girl always expects me to preform oral on her but she won't do it to me cause she always gags on it. Is this fair? should I look for a new girl? anyone interested?
2006-12-07 05:45:17 · 13 answers · asked by jackjvb69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lovemaking is a reciprocal act. Let her know that you really want her to work on hard on performing oral sex on you. That you will no longer perform on her unless she performs on you. If she becomes a B***H about it, then get a new girlfriend.
2006-12-07 05:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by kwightman69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, nobody is interested in giving you a BJ. About whether you should look for a new girl, only you know what you're looking for in a relationship. If you're looking for something serious, that would a stupid reason to leave somebody. If you're looking for a ho, then by all means go get one.
2006-12-07 13:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you that its even gaggable!
No, its not fair,entirely. Maybe she cant deepthroat but will she do the best she can? Will she suck on your balls? Heres the thing is your not yet serious you may want to find a girl who is more compatible. She dosent have to choke to please you,and it seems pretty selfish and as tho if she cant do it all,she'll do nothing. Sex IS important,not the onlt important thing but we all need to be fullfilled sexually.
2006-12-07 13:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No don't look for a new girlfriend just because she's gagging on yours! Just don't go down on her anymore, because that is kinda selfish. Tell her to jerk you off if she can't blow. lol, only in America!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-07 13:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it have to be "fair"? Can you be willing to give something you are not going to get? Is it "fair" that she probably can't orgasm during intercourse but you can? She probably needs your toungue worse than you need hers. Maybe it's not fiar but I think you should be a man about it and cut her a break on this one.
2006-12-07 13:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if u want to do it then that is on u, i personally wont go down on a guy. period and i think men should use dental dam when they do on a female as well as females should make a man where a glove when they do it on a male bc u dont know what ppl got these days.
2006-12-07 13:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been involved with a non-reciprocating man for more than a year and am finding his selfishnes in this area is indicative of his selfishness in other areas.
2006-12-07 13:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Tziporrah B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would quit shoving it all the way down her throat...that would help. Also, compliment her when she does do it and it will encourage her to do it more often.
2006-12-07 13:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by joker:P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might not think its fair but, you cant just leave her, thats mean and inconsiterate!
2006-12-07 13:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by puppy#4 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, that question is kinda dumb. Dump her cause she doesn't give you oral? Ok, if all you want is sex then yes dump her!
2006-12-07 13:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Just here. 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋