2006-12-06 11:51:24 · 16 answers · asked by charles_jg8047 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Short bouts of not wanting to make love is completely normal...daily stresses can play a huge role. If this is a long term problem, then i would start to worry about where she might be getting it !?!
2006-12-06 11:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a number of things that's causing her to lose her drive. Work, kids, housework, medical problems, and some medications can cause women to lose interest. It's also normal for couples to have dry spurts when life just gets in the way. Perhaps try to arrange for a romantic weekend away with her to re-connect.
I would sit down with her and ask her. There are times when my husband and I are too tired, and if it becomes too often, I'll come out and ask him if he's getting bored with the routine, or if work is stressing him out.
Open communication is always the key to a happy marriage and sex life.
2006-12-06 12:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by ShawnB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try simply listening to her. No solutions to her problems or trying to fix things. Just listen and take out the trash. Do the dishes without her asking or give the kids a bath. Something that shows her you care about her feelings. Men and women are different, women don't understand why and men don't care, the key is to empathize with each other.
2006-12-06 12:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by randye009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should plan a romantic night or maybe even a weekend. Go all out with roses and all that good stuff. If that doesn't work then talk to her about your concerns, communication is the most important thing in a relationship .Good luck!!!
2006-12-06 12:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by kimmey162002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal (especially if you have children).. If a girl is really tired she's just not going to feel like it. Just laying there lifelessly and getting ****** isn't alluring or all that fun.. Romance her, pick up part of her work load and see what happens.
2006-12-06 12:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by belleofchernobyl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldnt be worried,,,we do get tired from working,,taking care of kids,,the house and everything. Although for me i love sex and i would never pass it up for nothing. Sometimes my man is too tired to have sex but theres nothing you can do about it,,,we are only human and we get tired.
2006-12-06 11:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok one ewwwwwwwww there are 9 10 11 year old on here such as my self and ask her to just take a break relax and dont worry she probiley just tired because of working
2006-12-06 12:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is just that she is tired and not interested because she is tired... that being said try this one evening run her a bubble bath cook her dinner and give her a massage that may lead to something else or it might make her sleep really well so she will wake up early if you know what i mean...
2006-12-06 14:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should be worried. A woman is not going to turn down a romantic interlude all the time!
2006-12-06 11:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
do you have any children?
does she do all of the housework,plus work everyday?
maybe you need to help her out more,help her out and she will be less tired and more into making love
good luck
2006-12-06 11:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by msalb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋