What will you do if your g'friend tells you it is not working and dumps you. And then you manage to get her back and after a few weeks she dumps you again with no specific reason. Then you go to her flat only to see a man's car and you have been told by neighbours a man is in the room with her? Meanwhile, you love this girl to the bone. What will you do folks, help!!
2006-12-06 07:02:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww babe. If someone leaves you, it happens for a reason. Respect her for telling you it's over. She probably got back with you a second time because she felt sorry for you.
As much as it's tearing you apart, accept that she might be seeing someone else now.
There's nothing anyone can say to take away that sick to the stomach feeling. You've just got to ride it out and try to see your ex as a stepping stone. Take it a day at a time and you will get over her. Good luck.
2006-12-06 07:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've dumped my boyfriend about 3 or 4 times, and I was cruel just because he was unable to put an end to it! I was not really sure whether I loved him or not, and I reflected my uncertainty by just dropping him or letting him back.
This kind of relationships are bound to break down.
Sincerely, you should get over each other, get a different life and forget. For me it worked -- I am way more mature now and my ex-bf has overcome his "obsession" about me.
Hope this helps a wee bit
2006-12-06 07:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by parisbluecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on mate. Sorry your feeling bad! We have all been there! Dont find someone else on the rebound as that never works. Take some time out till you get over her. It'll take a bit of time, but thats all you can do. You cant force feelings to go away. just sit it out and you will get over her in time! Take care!
2006-12-06 07:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by enigma64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she first dumped you, I think she had started going out with this other guy, so for your own benefit, it is better to steer clear of her path as she will just treat you like scum. Forget about her even if she comes back to you as she isn't serious about you. She just uses you to avoid being lonely, but honestly, she doesn't love you.
2006-12-06 07:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by marizani 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seriously you know she obviously doesnt care for you...you yourself just said it whle you wrote the Question...Face the facts she obviously doesnt really llike you or why else would she just dump you out of no where? And tht guys car Hello A room! Really just think about what you just wrote and you will figure it out on your own
2006-12-06 07:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Janine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
females do the comparable element. i think of they are scared to commence a sparkling courting. That individual became into everyday. Now they could commence over and it ought to me frightening to them. They discern the least confusing element to do is to maintain going lower back to their ex and ask for an different danger.
2016-10-04 23:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by kinjorski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on because she hasn't chosen you. Find someone who doesn't cause you to create so much angst in your life. No matter how much you chase her, she will never be fully with you and will eventually get fed up and leave again.
Make yourself happy and avoid difficult people.
Good luck.
2006-12-06 07:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she dumped you before she will do it again, and again, and again. Learn from the experience and move on. Find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved.
2006-12-06 07:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey .. it feel bad to see the one you love with another man . but that's the way life is. she is not too much into you she likes another man respect her love for another man and you move on .
you alwyas do not get the one you wanted but wait and have patience
2006-12-06 07:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by adf a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For your own sanity, don't give this woman another moment out of your life. I don't care how much you love or care about her, she does not care about you. If you allow her back into your life, you will be asking for more of the same.
2006-12-06 07:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by Darlene G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋