If your husband goes around to all your friends complaining you never clean or do anything to help around the house ....That he also everyminute of the day sticks his hands down your pants playing with the two parts down there?
He askes every five minutes if you want to have sex and if you do have sex he still askes ... He also loses every job he takes and has manage to tell you if you divorce him he will take away your child (He says this because I have Bipolar) But yet everyday your son sees him naked in bed and no matter how many times you told him to put clothes on he refuses it and is more abuse to your son ....
He tried to kick a chair out from under my son because he wanted to help cook
2006-12-06 07:00:56 · 16 answers · asked by BitchBox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course everytime I try to clean he is standing over me complaining how I don't clean and messes the house up while I'm cleaning He wants me dependent on him
2006-12-06 07:01:59 · update #1
I Didn't have bipolar till after I met him and I'm not takeing meds I found if I'm busy I'm not depressed Iwas more depressed with the freaking pills.. But that is between loseing babies in miscarrieges as well
2006-12-06 07:12:27 · update #2
Tino I am adult I get up every morning and get my son ready to go to school I make sure he has a packed lunch . I make sure he comes home and we have fun I am the parent I have been for quite awhile..
On the husband right now I have manage to make him take CDL School in Indiana so right now he is a couple states away ...
I think I will put back some money from his earnings to save up so I can get a place for my son and I ... He can't fight a divorce or custody if he is out on the road .....
I have made some plans they are slowly working them selves in place...
2006-12-06 07:24:57 · update #3
Yes my sorry excuse for a husband its his son to ...
2006-12-06 08:37:41 · update #4
Damn girl...First of all I am sorry to hear of your situation and hope you figure out a solution quickly. If I were you I would get some serious help quickly, this guy sounds like he is not going to change and he is only bringing you down (not to mention your child) He wants you dependant on him, and if you just let it continue like this you will be dependant on him. Just because you are bipolar does not make you unfit to raise a child and therefore on those grounds alone he would not be able to take away your son. What about his unfit parenting?? Don't let him scare you girl, please. That is what he wants, what he thrives off of. You really need to call someone though, get some help from a third party that is un biased to either side. I hope you find what you need and god bless you and your son.
2006-12-06 07:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by TheHottestChristinaYouKnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch da B##$H AN ON WITH THA NEXT!Sounds like u need to be the adult for the first time get a hole of yourself and leave him the courts well find out what type of person he is and oviously u well get your kid not him since he's from job to job,shows no respect to both of u enough is enough.Save money aside secretly cause s@@t happens when it's really gonna go down leaving him and courts.I had a dad that was very abusive eventually your kid well say something one of these days it ant gonna look good on u.do what u can on the side with out letting him know! by getting help from family and friends that well back u up n the long run let them know whats going on to the ones u trust incase he gets stupid and hurts u he sounds that type.Be strong
2006-12-06 07:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out fast!!
Sounds like a creap,they will not take your child from you unless they have a good reason or evidence that you are a bad mother.
He is not worth your son or you being in harms way I would tell a lawyer exactly what you are telling us and ask suggestions of what to do. Don't let the creapy guy know you are doing this he might retaliate. Get it done when he is not aware Goodluck
2006-12-06 07:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy.W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away - take your son and go! You will suffer until you go crazy. Get full custody of your son if you can, once u do leave, dont come back. He doesn't love you or your son, and yes, it is possible for him not to love you even though you're his wife. Also, he probably has sexual addiction and doesn't care about anything but the euphoric feeling of sex - leave him, for the health of u and your child. If not, it will only get worse.
2006-12-06 07:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by dcbossygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a problem!! the only thing i can say in a situation like that is try to get some counseling; if you really want to work it out with him. If you don't try to seek a lawyer and see what he/she says. I say get the divorce if counseling doesn't work. giving the situation I don't know if he would win a custody battle if he tried kick a chair from under him. Remember "I CAN DO BAD BY MYSELF"
2006-12-06 07:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by tre_132mp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS he that abusve? I think he needs to o jail!!! All your poor little son wanted to do was help him cook. I would divorce him. If he really loved you he would not complain to YOUR (!) friends beacuse you dont clean (wich i'm sure u do). Kick him out of the house make him live in the big cold dark lonly world. Btw is your son you husbands sun?
2006-12-06 08:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would divorce him. If you are on your medication, your bipolar will not be a problem. At the most, they can do checks to make sure you are still taking the meds. I would love to know if you were bipolar before you married him. Sounds like he is a major part of your problem.
2006-12-06 07:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful.
He may become aggressive with you should you decide that you no longer need him.
Get a professional to help you out of this situation....police, legal aid, battered women shelter?
For both you and your son get help and get out.
2006-12-06 07:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by eyeneva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him. Make sure you have solid evidence that he isn't parenting material (witness accounts, photos and medical records of any abuse, etc...) and leave him. Let the bastard take care of himself.
2006-12-06 07:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you posting all this here? It makes you look stupid! You know d@m well what you should do, especially when he is mistreating your son! Get yourself together and get the he!! out of there!
2006-12-06 07:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋