Merry Christmas to me, I am almost FREE!!!! WHOOP!
2006-12-06 06:45:09 · 10 answers · asked by wildflower 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I didn't say I never grieved....
I didn't say it was EASY getting to this point....
There is so much more to it than "marriage/divorce".
If I am shallow for choosing to be free from emotional abuse, then so be it.
2006-12-06 06:54:33 · update #1
I have NO CHILDREN with this person.
2006-12-06 08:03:47 · update #2
I'm not going through a divorce but congratulations for you.
2006-12-06 06:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going through divorce and feel like sh..t.
This is very odd for me because everything in my life was just perfect. 15 years ago a made my masters degree ( highest in my class). I own a successful business so i can travel around to different countries. No money pain. Two wonderful kids, physically a jog daily ( ran more than 20 marathons). My parents still live and really love them.
But, you know what?? I would trade everything in a flash if i could change my marriage. I can say i am very successful in everything i do not care, and i am a failure in what really matters to me. I made a promise to God 15 years ago and i am about to break it. This is very sad.
Sorry to spoil your happiness!!
Good luck!!!
2006-12-06 15:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by adsomx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been 3 yrs ago, but when I got divorced I was happy about it. After 12 yrs of he.., I felt totally free. I did all my suffering and crying when I was married. I've never regretted the divorce. Best thing I ever did.
2006-12-06 15:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Beth T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I to was happy not at first worried about my son all the time but now i am free and I'am a much better person for not staying with this man. Good luck live each day to its fullest!!! May the wind always be at your back!!!
2006-12-06 15:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it is tough to live with some one who treats you the way you don't want to be treated. However if you have a kids please think twice before you decided to make the step, because u making the decision which might affect your child life. for sure you know what you doing, i might do the same thing if i get in your position so i don't judge. don't expect every thing will go soft, it might be hard to start thinking as a single after being attached with some one. any ways good luck
2006-12-06 15:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly getting a divorce usually is cause for celebration...Naively we marry our true love only to find their true nature...and it is not often pretty...well hopefully you will be wiser should you ever wish to give marriage another try..don't give up on life it can be on hell of a ride so ENJOY...good luck in the singles world..
2006-12-06 14:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find this a sentiment that is disrespectful to the institution of marriage. If this is how you feel about marriage, if the sanctity of the vows you took mean nothing, if the pain and suffering you have left in your wake are not worth grieving over, then you are sadly shallow person.
2006-12-06 14:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
yes - i am going thru a divorce & i am happy - finally free after years of being married to a bi-polar with too many rules. my kids are happy also!! we are free from the madness..................
2006-12-06 14:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by livetall1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I felt like you a few years ago ... lol ... enjoy the Holidays without the drama if you can ... congrads ... !
2006-12-06 14:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have never been married we can get togther how old are you
2006-12-06 14:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by glen r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋