Heres what happend if someone can help me.I went to school in NS for a month. I met this girl who is absolutely amazing.We got along great had a wicked time.here is where it gets hard, She has a kid which doesnt bother me because im crazy about her. I moved back home and told her I would be back for her. I am in a process of finding a job which involves me leaving for several months at a time. I am trying to make sure she is aware that I am serious but I dont think she thinks I am. I really want to keep intouch with her and make things happen but I dont know if I can do that for the next like 4 -5 months and not see her. I worried that she will find some one else and or loose interest in me, seeing how i am crazy about her. We keep intouch by cell txt message and phone. What can I say or do to make sure she knows im serious?
2006-12-06 06:22:08 · 13 answers · asked by DimaME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
write her some poems
2006-12-06 06:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand this part: "I am in a process of finding a job which involves me leaving for several months at a time. "
Are you looking for a job in NS so you can be with her?
What is the 4-5 months bit? You can't start work for 4-5 months?
I'm a bit confused. Sorry I need to take a nap I think!
2006-12-06 14:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU TELL HER.. because you only have one life to live and you shouldn't let any opportunity or any "love" slip away. You shouldn't worry about what you can't control. If she were to find someone else then she couldn't have cared about you too much in the first place. Do you want to leave never having let her know how you truly feel? If you're too afraid then put it in a letter.
Good luck!
2006-12-06 14:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her just like what you have in your question and just stay in touch with her txt message her call her everytime you have a chance even on the road... to make a long story short be straight up and make an effort to show her you mean business
2006-12-06 14:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by matchbox 78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should that you should go and see her and tell her that in her face. Because if you sent it by email, she might think that you are just playing around. Or waisting time with her. If it dosent work out, you can always let her go, and if she comes back to you later on life, then she was ment to be yours. Is she dosen't then she never was.
2006-12-06 14:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Una nena mas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a new one. talk to her as frequently as possible. without going over your budget, try to get her great gifts for no reason, and see if she sees how serious you take everything. if not, try the less tactful yet straight-up way of communicating it to her, actually tell her how serious you feel about it.
2006-12-06 14:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Luv Docta Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to know you are serious; you have to do something dramatic. Show up and surprise her one day , tell her you came back just to see her, or buy her a ring. I think that if you do something dramatic it will make her relize you're serious. Good-Luck!
2006-12-06 14:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by bulldognn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love demands sacrifices and if u are as serious as u say then u have to give up on some things to have other things but it`ll all be worth it and one day u will have double of whatever u gave up for that person and u will have her love
2006-12-06 14:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her every day and tell her you love her and miss her and wish she were with you every day. Buy her and her child a ticket to fly to see you. When she comes to see you give her a ring.
2006-12-06 14:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by susanne l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would she be able to go with you? You should sit down and talk to her.
2006-12-06 14:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋