...have sex with their ex-husbands?? I've dated 2 different women who were going behind my back and having sex with their ex-hub's and they always try to deny it.
My last 'ex' g/f used this excuse once: "I went to pickup a few things of mine he still had, but started feeling kinda sick so I just spent the night in the guest bedroom". Yeah right, like I'm friggin' stupid.
Ladies if you are guilty of doing this when you have a b/f, then this is totally wrong. To me it shows major lack of morals and decency. You can't have your cake and eat it too!
2006-12-06 06:07:34 · 22 answers · asked by Riff Addict 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not all women are like that. You may want to take a look at the kind of women you are dating. I have never once had sex with my ex husband once he was an ex, though he and I are still good friends.
2006-12-06 06:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by yogirl74 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In some people minds this person will always be their husband so they use this excuse to sleep with them. And just maybe these women you dated were not truly over the ex. When people have been married that is an attachment that you can just not break overnight or just because you have a boyfriend. Make sure your lady friend is truly over her ex before you leap in to the relationship.
2006-12-06 06:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to promise one person to be exclusive, and then break this promise - no matter if an ex-husband is involved, or anyone else. If she never promised you that, she can do whatever in the world that she wants to do. Perhaps you're taking your relationships too seriously - whereas your dates don't feel the same about you, and have no intentions of committing to you to begin with. Make sure both of you are on the same page regarding mutual committment before throwing accusations.
2006-12-06 06:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the main reason may be that they feel they may have a chance of getting back together with their ex, but they could also just be lonely and need to have sex to make themselves feel better. Another good reason could be that her ex knows how to rock her world without the usual learning stage that you have to go through when you are with a new partner. So if you are not in the relationship to find that everlasting partner, I would just enjoy the ride when I can get it. Just be sure to use caution.
2006-12-06 06:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by ray ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although what you have experienced really suck big time...please don't think that all ex wives do the same thing. I for one, would not do anything like this with my ex husband. Wow! My ex is an ex for a reason! Like you said, this show a lack of morals and decency. I would also would like to add, it shows a lack of self esteem.
2006-12-06 06:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♪♫♪justpassingby♪♫♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what i found out is you can't go back to holding hands after you've have already went to home base. Most women feel that 1. It's their baby's father, 2. They still love him, 3. Alot of them are'nt getting any, 4. He feels the same way, and has no issue about seducing her.. I know it's bad, but and i have seen alot.
2006-12-06 06:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Hummbaba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an ex husband and haven't touched him since before I left him. You leave someone for a reason and that reason hasn't changed. If they are going back for sex, probably they haven't let go yet.
2006-12-06 06:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by Army Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason that men sleep with their ex wives or girlfriends. You know what to expect and they're already conquered territory so you don't feel like you have to worry about getting something from them.
2006-12-06 06:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YUCK! Any ex of mine is an ex for a reason! I wouldn't want any one of them back, not in a million years! Count me out on this situation, I have the man I want at home, and I don't want any other!!!! OR the DRAMA that goes along with it...
2006-12-06 06:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps there is something they still desire from their ex's. Obviously they shared special moments and maybe that isnt was caused the split.
Maybe you should seek single ladies. I feel sorry for you and agree that you cant have your cake and eat it too. Good luck!
2006-12-06 06:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ember B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋