Are your parents divorced or seperated and one or both have them a new boyfriend or girlfriend that you are trying to ignore and you haven't even met them yet and given them a chance because you can't accept the fact that your parents weren't happy with one another but they are happy now?
2006-12-06 05:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by CryBaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm NOT one of the children, I'm the NEW woman.
2006-12-06 05:39:08 · update #1
Haven't met his kids yet because Of circumstances and of my three, he's met one so far. We're not married but have been seeing each other for over a year.
2006-12-06 06:09:39 · update #2
My parents are divorced. My mother has remarried and although I am not overly fond of her new husband, I see that he makes her happy and that's all that matters. The best thing my parents ever did was get divorced because, they were just miserable together. As you get older, you will realise your parents are human too.
2006-12-06 05:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not exactly, however I have been through my parents divorcing after 25yrs of marriage and them dating other people. I know it's kind of wierd, isn't it? My Mom started dating a younger guy, so that was really uncomfortable for me and my Dad remarried about a year ago. My Dad's new wife is really cool and easy to like. It was strange the first time I met her though. I really didn't know what to say to her or how to act around her. My advise to you is this...give the new people a chance. I realized that I'm old enough now to see my parents as just "people" now instead of just parents. They deserve a happy life, so if they are happy now with their new loves...so be it. You may end up becoming friends with them. My Dads wife has become our friend and has been great to all of us.Give them a chance.
2006-12-06 13:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you have a problem with one of his kids . well you know what you knew he had kids when you married him and if you are having problems with his kids you should work it out or leave the marriage cause he will not choose you over his kids I can tell you that now . I dated a man that had kids and his one son and I had a problem I was told by him that I was the one who had the problem,not the son and he would never choose me over his son (never asked him )to do so. so you see be carefull how you handle this you could end up losing a husband . good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-06 13:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your parents are human, just like you. They were wise enough to divorce, and they deserve to be happy. It is normal for you to resent and feel angry that they didn't stay together, but always remember that they are each doing their best to be a good parent and that they love you.
2006-12-06 13:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very young, but life isnt always how you want it. Dont be miserable. Give it a chance you might like the person.
2006-12-06 13:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your parents. You never know, one day you may end up doing the same thing they are doing.
2006-12-06 13:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt hurt to try and get to know your fathers new girlfriend or your mothers new boyfriend. Try meeting them first, before you judge them.
2006-12-06 13:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋