Guys, PAINFUL 4U??
If you went to ur g/f's gymnastics meet and you saw her fall flat on her back during her double back(double back flip), fall off the bean and hit her leg during her straddle jump, sprain her wrist on bars, would you feel bad or say she sucked?? Would you be like "ohhhh" when she feel like all the other people??(eventho it makes it worse) She is really good but upset cuz she found out her g-ma was in the hospital and can't focus. How would you react?? Would it be hard for you to watch her fall??
Would you be mad cuz ur school was losing or sad cuz she's gonna be upset and sore later??
You can't help her b/c it is a comp. Would you give her a big hug when she was done tho?
2006-12-05 14:26:49 · 9 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would you leave her b/c, eventho she was stll varsity, She wouldn't take first, making her not up to your "standard"??
2006-12-05 14:30:41 · update #1
of course give her a hug she's having a bad day! she needs your support. tell her you know she is stressed about her grandma (offer to go to the hospital to see her grandma and bring flowers for grandma if she can't visit buy a card or send flowers from the both of you. make sure you take a picture of you both for grandma it will cheer both of them up)tell her and she will nail it next time.
2006-12-05 14:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by barnett95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do DO NOT tell her that she sucked. Girls are upset about things like that. And if she says that she sucked, tell her that you thought she did great! (It will make her feel like she really means something to you.) Do not do the "ohhhh" thing because she will feel like you think she is a failure. It would be hard for anyone that watched someone that they care about fall. Don't be mad because your school is losing, it is not the end of the world that your school doesn't win everything. But be sad because she is hurting and comfort her, rub where she is hurting. When everything is done give her a hug and a kiss and tell her that she was good.
2006-12-05 22:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Parrish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a no brainer. I would be proud she worked so hard and would be there for her no matter what. I would make sure she had whatever she needed when we got home too, back rubs, heating pads, ice packs. In other words pamper her. She deserves it.
2006-12-05 22:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg u shouldnt even have 2 ask, if u were a good b/f u would know what to do. who gives a flying flip if ur school looses? ur g.f is in pain, and is upset. comfort her!
2006-12-05 22:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by shortsagitarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that everything was going to be ok :) and that you'd be there for her no matter what.
That you will support her through hard times. You're someone she can lean on.
When I was going through rough times my boyfriend told me that and I made me feel like I could conquer the world.
2006-12-05 22:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by small one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a hug and let her vent and cry on you.
She's got to be upset with herself. So even if you're at all mad at her, it's absolutely wrong to let her know it.
2006-12-05 22:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by contemplating 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes be there for her! dont be thinking about your school! she needs company because shes probably very sad and needs people to give her love.
2006-12-05 22:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by walrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think SomeGuy is right! This is the time where you should be there for her - comfort her!
2006-12-05 22:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sportivo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill go to her immediately and offer her comfort
2006-12-05 22:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by SomeGuy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋