they always write u love letters, and when they're with their friends they deny it. they take u out to places where their friends won't see them all dressed up.
2006-12-05 14:20:46 · 27 answers · asked by I Thought U Were The One 4 Me!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because their friends laugh at them for having emotion most men are raised to act big bad and tough ...so they get teased when they act emotional...it's a guy thing ...its fine as long as he's not disrespecting you or degrading you in front of his friends...its perfectly fine if he likes showing his affection for you in private to avoid the ridicule of his immature friends but the moment he disrespects you in front of them then crawls back to you to apologize is the moment you need to let him go and find a better man.
2006-12-05 14:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by @ubreY 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They are trying to act tough in front of their friends. That's pretty lame, though. There is nothing wrong with writing love letters and generally treating a girlfriend with the love and respect she deserves.
2006-12-05 14:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by labudd13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it's because they have no backbone and are followers. They are the ones who have the potential to stand out of a crowd of jerks, but choose to not let those clowns down by being like them. If a guy knows he likes a girl, and shows it while he is alone with her, but acts differently around his friends, he's a coward, defenitly missing out, and isn't the type of guy to be with unless he develops the guts to be himself and not be afraid of what his friends might say about someone he likes, even if she isn't the type of girl they want to see him with!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-05 14:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They have to act like they are hard if they told their friends they wrote you a love letter their friends might or the guy might think his friends mighyt make fun of him..it also deoends on their age as well and maturity level
2006-12-05 14:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by crrousey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's some insight into the inner workings of the male mind.
You can't appear soft in front of your boys. We keep each other in check by making fun of each other when a new lady enters one of our lives. I believe this is an evolutionary process that developed among male peers to prevent succubus-syndrome and p*ssywhippings.
My $0.02
2006-12-05 14:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by leedogg1981 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They're called peers and when your boyfriend is without his peers he's able to be himself, but when he's around his friends or buddies, then it's natural to see his masculine and even higher levels of testosterone come out!
2006-12-05 14:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by HotInTX 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Their friends would really tease them if they acted like that in front of them. They save face that way. It's called immaturity.
2006-12-05 14:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cause their jerks. lol.
Really.. I would say, that they are trying to impress, they have a wishie washie little brain of there's.. thats just sooo lame. I dated a guy like that once, the problem.. ya have. Hmm. i dumped him && its been two years && he's after mee && jealous of my current bf. Woo && it rocks.
2006-12-05 14:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Helen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ugh i understand this one guy i know is mean to me at school but through txt or on the fone(when hes im is room alnoe) talks to me very nicly & is like one of the sweetest guys ever
*well ya*
<3
2006-12-05 14:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by ballet_tigger 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its because they don't feel its...manly? (laughs) I'm not quite sure, I know what you mean though! My friend is all nice to me when his friends aren't around but when his friends are around, he's all macho man and saying that he "wasn't like that." Or something to that extent. It's their reputation.
2006-12-05 14:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋