why women like bad boys?

Question

I constantly hear that women are hypocritical because they say they want a decent man, but then continuously go for the jerk. I hear it all the time from guys. At first I thought it was some lame excuse for guys who couldnt get a girlfriend. But over the years, Iam 21 now, I have come to realize that these guys are right! Not only that but Iam running in to more and more women who sheepishly, and shamefully admit to their foolish tendency to go for bad guys.
I have come to two conclusions.
1.) Women like men they feel they can change for the better! 100% of the time these guys are Aholes!
2.)And the most twisted epiphany of all!!!!.......................women for some odd reason feel they dont deserve a good man!!
the question I have to ask is this.
WHY DO WOMEN THINK THIS WAY! It is cauing decent men to abandon their values in the name of getting a woman.
And from my own experience, this works!

Answer 1

Well you have conquered the important part, that they do act like that indeed...why? Well that would be tough to answer as each one of the women would have a different reason...they dont demand the best out of a guy because most men are not man enough to give their best after they get what they want, and they know if they have a high standard he will go find a woman who doesnt mind them being aholes, so....there ya go...

Women (and a lot of men) cant stand being alone, like they think something is wrong with them if they are single, so they settle for less...and they arent happy unless there is something about their man that needs fixing, or something about the relationship...They might have a good man, but the situation would have to suck (like at work, or long distance) for them to be emotionally satisfied...and then of course you know how it goes...

Answer 2

Not all women like bad boys. What a stereotypical question. And by the way, some women do think they don't deserve a good man because they feel that they deserve the BEST man. So stop complaining. Most bad boys on the other hand, are great at manipulating women, so some of these women that want a 'decent man' that land up with a jerk are really just suckers to men that have a way with words.

Answer 3

First the old thing... no over-simplifying please!
Not every woman goes -unconsciously or consciously- for the ahole. But in a way you're right... I have to admit that.
I think... human instinct is the key. Woman also wants to be a hunter and wants an interesting man, one who teases. She wants a strong man, of course for protection, too. So I think the decent and the bad guy don't have to be mutually exclusive. He just doesn't have to be a bore.
Yet I don't understand women who let themselves be suppressed by men that treat them like dirt. Maybe they don't have enough self-confidence. Anyway--I want a good man, no anti-social wanker. And there are good men still. =)

Answer 4

you recognize why women human beings likes undesirable boys??? slightly secret, as a results of fact they take opportunities. i think of you may agree that a "undesirable boy" isn't the excellent type or supportive person. they could be strict or unequal. they look slightly too aggressive at cases(or quite some the time). They no longer often care of outcomes or risking any opportunities. To be uncomplicated with you, being undesirable is once you communicate returned to your mom, no longer once you "act" like a bad boy. One reason they could be undesirable is for interest. and oftentimes for all time it quite is real. they choose to be the megastar. you recognize the asserting, something you're able to do i'm able to do extra constructive than you. that means to almost each thing in existence(activities, business organisation, etc). playstation : What does a "undesirable boy" have???? properly, they could have the females yet no longer funds, I assure you that(i replaced into raised on the South fringe of Chicago and that i understand the streets). My boys are "undesirable boys" etc. I dangle around with them on account that i replaced into 7(now i'm 21). and a few have replaced yet some have not.... i've got considered the sport performed an excellent number of cases in my lifetime. and those that think of that "undesirable boys" have all the girls human beings, i choose to make certain them having the females that are high priced!!(i'm telling you for my area for my area, women human beings are high priced, I recommend quite high priced). the cheap women human beings are decrease priced and the high priced women human beings are high priced(hell no, I ain't married).

Answer 5

lol, a common predicament :) I spent much of my adolescence discussing the very same subject with my peers and the conclusion is YES! There are obviously exceptions to every rule, but from my experience women are attracted to men who are bad for them. OK, but here's the shocking part...men are attracted to women who are bad for them too. And most of the guys who complain about this fact would describe themselves as nice guys, often this can be true, and unfortunately this wont change until women pass their sexual peak (around 35) and decide to 'settle down'. As I said there are of course exceptions to every rule, and this is all just a conclusion gained from my own experiences and the knowledge gained from my peers. Hope it helps ;)

Answer 6

Sometimes you have to have a fling with a bad boy or someone who is less than perfect.

For the girls that always go for the jerks...some of them can't function without a boyfriend so they pick up the first guy they can. Others...who knows. Relationships are complex. Maybe they don't see how bad it is.

Answer 7

Well some women have a wild side in them that they don't admit to. SOme will always stand by their man don't matter how they get treated. But don't fret because there are woman out in the world that want a noble humble guy. But you have to look hard to find them. SO don't worry you'll find one soon.

Answer 8

Why is it that guys think that they're perfect and that it's the woman who is at fault?

If you believe that an entire gdner has a problem, more often than not, YOU are the one with the problem.

Sure women like the bad boy appeal but we're not stupid...or at least not most of us are not. Not all women will take abuse lying down.

Answer 9

Bad boys show u a good time but i could work with a decent guy also

Answer 10

I don't know why women like BAD BOYS but I can say that I love them because......well I don't know why it's just something about them that gets some women hooked.


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