right now im in high school and I havent really had a true boyfriend since 9th grade. Alot of my friends have boyfriends right now and theres guys I like but in the end nothing works out. When you were in high school did you date alot?? I dunno I think I should just wait till college...Im not cocky or ne thing but im not ugly at all I just havent found ne guy worth wastin my time on ;] heheheh
2006-12-03 09:17:38 · 16 answers · asked by whereHAVEallTHEcowboysGONE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't settle for just anyone..hold out for the best you don't have to have a boyfriend just for the sake of having a boyfriend.Wait for college if you like or until you find some one you really want to be with.Good luck
2006-12-03 09:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It's not really that I dated a lot, I was just the girl who always had a boyfriend with someone else on the back burner as a back up.
Like, I always had one serious boyfriend after another and I always had some random guy who also liked me at the same time.
There isn't like a set time when you MUST get a boyfriend, your life is different from everyone else's even if you live in the same town or go to the same school, etc. Don't give in to the hype that having a boyfriend is everything because it's not. Having guys like you probably isn't as great as you think it is.
2006-12-03 17:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This actually sounds a lot like me. I'm a junior in high school and I don't think I'm ugly at all, not to be conceited or anything, but I've noticed everytime I've liked a guy, it never works out. But right now, I really like this guy. haha. And I feel he is totally into me. All I did was sit back and wait for something to come along. When you aren't looking for someone, a person pops up. But when you are looking, nothing works out. That's how i look at it.
2006-12-03 17:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by erin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me, high school guys are morons. They only think with one head and believe me it isn't the right one. Wait until you're older to date, because you'll see that guys are much more mature. Another option is that you could date an older guy but I wouldn't recommend that only because older guys can take advantage of you. Once you get into the real world, which is so different from high school it might as well be another planet, you will realize that guys aren't everything anyway. Just enjoy being yourself and have fun, and let they guys come to you. As soon as you stop looking, they will come looking for you.
2006-12-03 17:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEy keep searching for the right one. Never know how it will go in college because it's get s worse there everybody there are just for the score. Need to be carefull when going out with college guys. SO enjoy your life and never can tell Mr. Right is just around the corner.
2006-12-03 17:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel you have to date just because your friends are dating.
it's better to hold out until you find someone you really want to be with.. so many people get into relationships out of pressure, and these always turn out bad.
i never dated in high school, and looking back, it was probably a good thing.
wait til college if you want. nothing wrong with that
2006-12-03 17:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sad
2 girlfriends in high school or maybe 7, depends on what counts
mostly I just got high and hung around with friends
I was intent on being and becoming who I was mostly. Girlfriend or not.
Now I'm wise enough to know I need at least one girlfriend and/or wife. Girls are soft and nice to hold, whatever else I might think of them.
2006-12-03 17:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl you better enjoy this time. Because college is a whole new ball game. Their are girls who look like super models in college. And you won't have a chance against these hot Ladies.
2006-12-03 17:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myself personally I did not date in high school the guys were too imature for me. Finish high school. Trust me you are going to meet more than you can handle once you hit college.
2006-12-03 17:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by peaches m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its ok if u dont have any boyf in high school- that can be a good thing. think about it- your friends who date ALOT will eventually have more heart breaks in their lifetime than you. also in a way u r saving urself for ur true love yet to come. dont ruin it buy giving urself to every guy out there!
2006-12-03 17:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by justsomeothergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋