he said he thought that he was ready and he is not maybe he is content living with his parents and his son and he has his freedom,you would think he would want to find a good women and settle down he says he doesnt wanna date anyone but me.I really love this guy,I really think he is still afraid he is gonna get hurt.
2006-12-03 08:16:55 · 9 answers · asked by lainey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is probably hesitant to get into a relationship that is too serious at the moment, because he has a son and his son is his first and foremost priority. He definitely could be afraid of getting hurt or getting too involved with someone since he doesn't want it to negatively affect his son. If you really care for him, be patient, because sometimes people need time, and only time will tell where this is going. We all have to be open to the needs of others - especially those we care about, so if you are open to the fact that he needs a bit of space and time to sort through his feelings, he will greatly appreciate it. A little bit of time is probably all he needs - show him everyday that you care for him, and his son as well, and things will naturally progress when he is ready! Sometimes someone is not ready for the committment we are ready for, but I feel it is worth the wait and if we respect someone else's feelings it will only make things work right in the end.
2006-12-03 08:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by lop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're right in your assessment. It's hard to blame a guy when he's been burned badly.
You have to decide whether you love him enough to wait until he is sure you will stay with him, no matter what, or move on.
Of course, the problem with the current arrangement is that time is not standing still; the clock is ticking, and neither of you are getting any younger. Your chances of transitioning to a new b/f grows more slim as each day passes.
But if you have the time, and feel he is the right one for you, then wait for him.
2006-12-03 08:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he just wants to date for now than you have two choices. One, continue seeing him as is now or break off the relationship and find someone who wants the same things. You could wait and see if he changes his mind later but there is no guarantee that will happen.
2006-12-03 08:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by parrothead2371 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him some time, when men feel someone is being pushy THEY WILL RUN! Just enjoy your time with him and if he is being faithful to you, he will come around in his own time.
2006-12-03 08:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by janet s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is commiting....to you. why would you want to ruin that. he's got a son so he has to look out for him first and foremost.
2006-12-03 08:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by collgegrl11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow him for what will be will be if its mean't to be if not, you may be wasting your time.
2006-12-03 08:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him and find out for sure.
2006-12-03 08:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad. He doesn't like you that much.
2006-12-03 08:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it...comitment isnt easy..
2006-12-03 08:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by braider27 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋