OK, How come some people get dates all the time and they are always with a boyfriend or girlfriend while others seem to find no one. I am 20 and I have never had a boyfriend and I do not think it is becuase I am ugly or anything becuase me friends tell me I am not... They tell me i just have to wait for the right person.
However they all constantly have boyfriends or girlfriends. So what makes them like that?? How come some people always have dates and boyfriends always while some never have them and are told they just have to wait!!! It is so frustrating to wait!
I dont know what I am doing wrong!! Does anyone know what is different about these two types of people?? Thanks!
2006-12-03 07:33:11 · 8 answers · asked by senoritadolche 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing is wrong with you sweetie. that's just the way it is sometimes.
some ppl HAVE to constantly have a bf/gf. they cant be without someone..so they settle for someone that they eventually break up with. yo-yo dating.
i think your the smart one...waiting for the RIGHT person. your only 20...don't be in such a rush for a relationship. they are a LOT of work!
2006-12-03 07:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your friends are just being nice because something is obviously wrong with you. If it's really not your face/body that turns everyone off, it has to be your personality. My guess is that you might have an annoying attitude that everyone is too nice to tell you about.
Don't listen to stupid people who say things like, "That's just the way it is for some people." Why? They are wrong.
Also, quit believing in that stupid prince charming BS. He doesn't exist, and believe it or not, no one is out there waiting for you. YOUR LIFE IS NOT A FAIRYTALE.
Judging by the way you've written your question, I can tell you with unbelievable accuracy that you're probably a bookworm with no social skills. Here's a tip, lower your standards, dress skimpier, and go to clubs where all the horny men flock to. Problem solved.
2006-12-03 15:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The difference is the way they interact with the opposite sex.
Be at ease and don't care what they think about you.
You are categorizing people in 2 groups...the dating and the non-dating. May I suggest you change it to...the happy and the non-happy. If you think dating will make you happy, it might. Then again, it may make you more unhappy than you have ever been in your life. Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.
Cheer up it will happen when you least expect it. I promise.
2006-12-03 15:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by Brother Mike 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could be many things such as
putting yourself out there to someone that wants a more conserved girl
not saying enough or saying to much
not being able to go with the flow
having high standards that guys do not want to try and live up to
but then there is always the fact that guys do not know what the hell they are looking for so they over look the person that is right for them and go for someone that they want to be right for them
is it you no not at all it is the simple fact that guys do not know what the hell they want
2006-12-03 15:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by cool cat2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you look how many boyfriends your friends have had, you should consider your self Lucky. the right person will come a long as so will my girlfriend. Perfect fruits do not fall off trees they have to be picked off.
2006-12-03 16:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by sija_uk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-03 15:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
im like you, some people get over there last boyfrind so easily, and me, i date someone i actully like and care for and it takes me a while to move on me and you are still waiting for prince carming! :)
2006-12-03 15:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by bria<3 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
whileyou wait for mr right, see lotsof other boys, that'swhat other girlsare doing too.
2006-12-03 15:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋