i have been madly in love with a friend of mine for 3 yrs but she only sees me as a friend i want to move on - if i go out with someone elseisit fair on the person i am going out with or am i better of being single till i sort my feelings out?
2006-12-02 09:08:55 · 15 answers · asked by paul265116 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how is it not fair if your not with that one person and that person doesnt mind. theres nothing wrong with doing that ive done that to get my mind off of them and it worked for the most part
2006-12-02 09:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should think of it this way. If your not happy with who your with then it wont work out with you two because you aren't trying to make it happen. And all that would do is end up in a failed relationship. If you like someone that doesn't like you then you should try to talk to them or hang out with them. if you have already done this then give up on that person because even if you two got into a relationship she wouldnt want it to work. Now the girl that your with. Really i would think you should try to get to know her more. try and forget the girl your "madly in love with" and focus on her. its basically the same with a girl telling you that she loves someone else.. she oviously isnt thinking of you. So try giving the girl your with another chance before you move on. as for the other one. give up. she doesnt seem to be interested in you.
2006-12-02 17:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing to do is sort ur feelings out before you move on. Talk to this girl u love and c if u have any kind of chance with her. If she acts like there is not then id say u need to move on.
2006-12-02 17:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by 49er fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on.. maybe that will change your heart about your friend.. if you stay single you might just be waiting for something that will never happen. don't miss an opportunity when you get a chance...get to know the other person.. you will never know what is in store...
2006-12-02 17:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is there to sort? She dont want you like that, move on...doesnt mean you have to go right out and get with someone, but let her go for the love of pete...
2006-12-02 17:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS FAIR TO MOVE ON BECAUSE YOU ARE GOING TO BE MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOUR FRIEND WHO IS NOT MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU BUT ONLY SEES YOU AS A FRIEND.SHE IS IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE SO GO AND FIND SOME ONE AND GET YOUR GROVEES ON.GO SHIVER YOUR LIVER BOY.
2006-12-02 17:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by shawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt like you in that way....move on. dont torment yourself waiting for something that may never happen. she is the only one that will be losing out. there is someone out there that you can share you feelings with and that someone will share them back. but definitely move on.
2006-12-02 17:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by dana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you might just have to go out with them to see if this new interest sparks something that overides the feelings you have toward your friend.
2006-12-02 17:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by lend322 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were yuo i would just let wateva happens. maybe she will realize wat a great guy u are. or maybe she will just see you as a great friend. but either way god has a plan for you. i wouldnt date because you dont wanna hide your feelings or hurt a gurl who might really be into you. wait it out cause the same thing is happening to me too.
2006-12-02 17:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by littlenikki57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2006-12-02 17:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋