my best guy friend in the world has become a SERIOUS crush for me. i think i want to get over him because i don't think he likes me, but at the same time, i'm not sure. last year the same thing happened and i didn't think he like me then either but later, after he got a gf, he told me that he had liked me. i don't want to make that mistake again, but i don't want to ruin our friendship by making it awkward if he doesn't like me. he's too good of a friend for me to risk that. he never has time to hang out with me on the weekends, but when we talk he'll tease me and call me a "devil woman" for teasing him. should i get over him? or how can i get him?
2006-12-02 08:36:11 · 10 answers · asked by juliiii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kiss him under mistletoe this Xmas and see where it goes. It's a good way to tell if he likes you and if not you can say we were under the mistletoe Xmas cheer and all that. That's what i did last Xmas eve and I'm now engaged to my friend.
2006-12-02 08:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by mione v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer never changes for these situations...You HAVE got to talk to him. There is no other way around it. Those feelings won't go away and you will just kick yourself later with all the what if questions in your future! lol. Just ask him, hypothetically, if the 2 of you were to be together and............ you pick the situation. Maybe something from a soap opera or the news. Check out his reaction. That should be enough to see what his take is. Good Luck
2006-12-02 08:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by zildjian152 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's a hard decision cause i once went out with my best guy friend and it was great for a while but i don't really know what happened. If you go out and then break up things will be awkward for a while but then they'll be back to normal well at least my relationship got back to normal. I don't' know you have to decide if you guys are just better off being friends of more than friends. You have to decide whether you can get over him cause that's hard to do. good luck
2006-12-02 08:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by cavigirl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget logic...that just screws you up. Follow your heart. If you feel that its worth the risk of maybe ruining your friendship than go for him. If not...be content with being his best bud.
2006-12-02 08:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for you to do is wait but if it gets to serious with him and his gf the best thing for a best friend to do is step aside and let things go as planned for your guy friend and his gf
2006-12-02 08:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by katch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do would be just tell him how you feel, if he is a great friend he will not fell awkward if he doenst like you
just ask him if he likes you, or have someone else to do it for you
2006-12-02 08:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like the guy he will never know if you do not tell him so p[lain talk is easy understood. tell the guy that you are starting to like him and see how it goes with him. do not tell him you are really hot for him though. if he likes you after you talk to him he will come on to you
2006-12-02 08:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's single again. ask him out. as a date. see how he feels about it. if he's game. then u can try to further the relationship. if he feels nothing. move on like b4.
2006-12-02 08:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that's all.
2006-12-02 08:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by EW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her duh
2006-12-02 08:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋