i have a girl friend, i love her and she does, but i care more about her than she does ! and iam afraid about her than she does! she doesn't ask about things where i feel its big like when iam driving in the rain she doesn't even say takcare in driving ! is it more confidence or that she's not really caring !
when she describes her sister husband i feel like she likes his character too much which makes me feel jelus and hate her sister and her husband !
alot of stories, but is there is a way to make sure of that she loves me for real as i do .. are we will be good togather as husband and wife......
2006-12-02 08:26:35 · 12 answers · asked by bayhell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
I can understand your current state of mind.When you love or care for somebody,it's natural to be recognized by the other person.
I am sure,she loves you a lot.But may be its her nature or her trust in you that never force her to say a few words of love to you.
And believe me,such people are truly very romantic at heart as they usually donot show their feelings to each and everybody,but when they really appreciate a person they are their best pals/partners of life.
So,you need not to worry about her such a neutral behaviour towards you.
Try to tell her how much you love her,but in a very romantic and exotic place where there is only two of you and where you can spend some quality time with each other.
Trust me,people with such a nature are more easy to win than any body else.
So go ahead, and believe in yourself and your love.
Pooja
2006-12-02 12:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by pooja_negi27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat. she says she loves me, but actions speak louder than words, so how do I really know? We need some good answers out there people, some scientific method tests to prove to us once and for all... i.e. how does she respond after you've just been in a serious accident and you're in the hospital? you should ideally fake the accident of course. I personally think this one is going too far for me, so some other ideas would be helpful...
2006-12-02 16:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Agent69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up baby!!
Believe her when she says she loves you.
If you worry a lot about trivials, it will be printed on your face and she will feel that you are not mature enough... in fact you are not. Grow up dear be brave to accept that others can be better than you (I am talking about her brother in law).
Girls respect those who can take care of them whenever they feel insecure, who can take control of difficult situations, who believe in actions & not merely in words...
You have earned her love... now try to earn her respect.
2006-12-02 16:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wasn't raised in a family that said things like "take care" when driving in the rain. Why be so petty?
2006-12-02 16:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no way to know unless you talk to her about it.
maybe she is just not very clingy, and doesn't feel the need to tell you how much she cares, she is jsut stupidly assuming you know
orrrr.... maybe she doesn't feel as strongly about her as you do about her
2006-12-02 16:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes just like that...ask her if she likes you or does shel ike her bro in law more?
2006-12-02 16:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by Heera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves u.........
but she dont know how to act to tell u that she love u and care about u
2006-12-02 17:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kashish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you afraid? she is loving you and marry her for better life
2006-12-02 18:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U R JUST OVER THINKING THE SITUATION SHE LOVES U OR SHE WOULD NOT BE WITH U .
2006-12-02 16:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by jersey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody's charachter is different ..... this is her charachter and she doesn't show a lot of effection... but this doesn't mean that she doesn't care
2006-12-02 16:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋