I actually have. I've had several bad relationships with men, both romantic and non-romantic and I thought I'd lost hope and trust completely.
Now, my fiancee has no charm. He's not suave and he's not smooth and most of the people in my life are baffled by my choice of him: he's shy and they don't know him very well. He also has no sort of click in his head that tells him that something he's about to say could be taken badly-he's not a jerk, he just has no ability to manipulate.
He's not at all like what I fell for before, but that's kind of the point. Only someone so guileless, so sincere, could have made me trust him the way he has. I still fear for our future-there've been so many men who've left that it feels inevitable-but he's patient with me about it, and doesn't let me break it all off when I get too scared.
We're engaged now and getting married next October and I couldn't be happier. Truly; he's not only amazing on his own, but he's slowly erasing the memories and scars of the bad things that happened before him. He has single-handedly renewed my faith in men.
Hold on, it takes awhile, and it can take a lot of heartbreak, but if you just try to be patient and make sure you watch your choices carefully, it can definitely happen!!
2006-12-02 08:15:17
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answered by lutmerjm 3
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nicely, judging with the aid of how she's all knotted up in her relationships (2 boyfriends mutually) she might want to assert convinced and purely use you to cheer up and then unload you. i'd say that is slightly a grey section. yet in case you quite imagine she's that pleasing and also you do not ideas what takes position later then yep you're proper 2 perhaps 3 weeks and your golden. the different one will likely get jealous, yet in case you adult men do not communicate she'll get over you and bypass on and also you may under no circumstances have that danger lower back... that can suck if she absolutely is that quite :L You gotta come to a decision which female you want extra. because in case you bypass for one your gonna bypass over out on the different. the dancing element: i in my view imagine that would want to be quite amazing xP yet some ladies might want to be like.. wtf?? i wager it relies upon on the way you pull it off - like if you're an really humorous no longer awkward guy you're golden with that. yet in case you come back of tacky it is recreation over. wish i might want to help :P
2016-11-23 13:00:56
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answered by valesquez 4
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You will find your Mr. Right just give it time. He will come to you and you'll have the love of your life beside your side forever.
2006-12-02 08:00:27
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answered by Just Some Girl 2
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i havent but i have had a couple of people tell me i will find the right guy for me and that there is a guy out there for every1 and you will find them....
-hope that helps
2006-12-02 08:00:41
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answered by iamloved387 1
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Not yet but I'm actively looking:) Don't worry he will turn up!
2006-12-02 08:02:10
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answered by Merrily 3
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No, but I don't want one, anyway. I can escape from my own damn tower.
2006-12-02 13:35:32
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answered by Anonymous
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I met mine. Be patient, he will come.
2006-12-02 08:00:10
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answered by noonee333 4
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dont stop looking, he is still slaying dragons.
2006-12-02 08:37:05
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answered by Anonymous
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he will C*m
2006-12-02 08:01:35
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answered by MMaaNN 1
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