Alright. I really like the most popular boy in school. i'm not all that popular. And I really want to date him. He usually goes for the popular girls, which I am not. He's really hot and I have a huge problem with going up and telling him I like him. How can I tell him and/or get him to notice me. PLEASE I am getting physically sick for him.
He is also a really a sweet guy. We talk sometimes and when we do he is always really nice and he jokes around sometimes. We also sit next to each other in computer class and talk about projects. I am way attracted to his personality and his hotness.
This is continuing because I didn't really get a good answer last time.
2006-12-02 07:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by freakishrockstar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you want him to like you because it will boost your ego? Do you think it will give you the social status you seem to so admire?
Or do you truly like him and want him to like you, but you are intimidated by his social status?
If you talk during a class and he is friendly, then he DOES notice you. Maybe he does like you but he is simply unsure of his feelings. When he is sure of his feelings, you will know it because it will come out in his behavior.
If you really like this guy then show his some more attention. Don't just "tell how you feel" and dump your feelings in his lap and expect him to be won over. You will scare him away. Just show him a little more admiration and appreciation. Open up to him at HIS pace if you don't want to scare him off.
You might be so bold as to ask him if he wants to do a project with you. Get together and build a webpage or something. GO take pictures of the pets at the humane society and post a pet adoption webpage with the pictures on it. Get his ideas and compliment them. If he feels good about hiself when he is around you, then he will want to be around you more. But he won't, if you act desperate or needy, and expect him to take care of your feelings.
2006-12-02 07:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably the most popular boy in school because he is actually a very nice person, and if he is really nice, he wouldn't be at all insulted if you asked him to do something with you. He probably doesn't care about someone's popularity to have someone as a friend and then develop an actual relationship. You should get into a conversation in computer class with him, and you need to find something you are both interested in, like perhaps a project you could both work on together, or something you could both attend in your area, a seminar on computer use, or something, then invite him. You will have then invited him on a sort of date! And if you get along, he'll ask you out on a real date, I bet!
2006-12-02 07:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by mch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same problem here. i fisrt talked to my friends about my problem and they said i have a better chance with him then any other girl at the school and they mean it.
first you need to be confident in yourself and second of all you need to not try. i use to get sick from liking a guy too and it's so hard to stop that bad habit. but i recomend doing something for yourself and by yourself. free time is crucial!
good luck girl!â¥
~slacker
2006-12-02 07:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by santaz_lil_slacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH WE HAVE ALL BEEN THERE, HE IS NICE TO U AND CHARMING BECAUSE HE IS THE MOST POPULAR GUY IN SCHOOL, THAT'S HOW HE GOT THERE, GOOD LOOKS, NICE TO ALL THE GIRLS, JUST BE YOURSELF, AND FOR GOD'S SAKE KEEP YOUR COOL AROUND HIM, USUALLY THE MOST POPULAR GUY IN SCHOOL WANTS THE MOST POPULAR GIRL, RENT "JOHN TUCKER MUST DIE" IF HE LIKES U HE HAS ENOUGH COURAGE TO ASK U OUT....HANG IN THERE !
2006-12-02 07:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its really tough situation for u. espicially in high school. There really is no good answer to this other then your have a crush on him and don't know how to handle it. you have to make a choice. nobody here is gonna give u a great answer. myself included
2006-12-02 07:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u ask him for help on a project for computer class if he is smart.. or u can offer to help him...
2006-12-02 07:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by nastymix1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel.
2006-12-02 07:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am!!
2006-12-02 07:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋