i been looking for over 22 years,been on date sites and cant find a women to be with me i left messages on all date lines that must be the biggest scams around i put over 100 messages to women to get a reply no luck which comes to you now where are the good women?
2006-11-30 13:22:27 · 24 answers · asked by glenn_gregg24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
22 years!! Poor bloke, you need more help than Yahoo answers can give you, thats basically my lifetime there...
2006-11-30 13:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by RobLough 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Same reason why I can't find a good man, because they just don't exist! Seriously, stop trying so hard and let it just happen. When you do all of these things to force yourself to make a connection with someone, you come off desperate and that's like wearing a big sign that reads "RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN BECAUSE ALL I WILL DO IS SMOTHER YOU". Just let it happen naturally, be yourself, not what you think some woman wants you to be, and maybe don't have such a rigid idea of what this perfect woman should be, broaden your horizons....hey that's what everyone tells me when I complain about not being able to meet a decent guy, lol.........Good Luck!
2006-11-30 21:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by qtee425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your main problem is that you are trying WAY TOO HARD.STOP and start living your life normally and one day when you least expect it the right woman will walk into your life and everything will workout just fine.But if you want to shorten the time it takes join groups and organizations and maybe you will find someone that way.Throwing yourself at every woman you meet may get you somebody but probably not the right person and more than likely it will get you a reputation as someone who is desperate and very few women (except ones that take advantage of desperate men) want to bother with someone who is perceived as desperate.I went through a yit load of women before I found who I thought was the perfect woman for me and even that ended in divorce.But one night I was out at a neighborhood bar and the TRUE PERFECT WOMAN FOR ME walked into my life and we have been married for five (5) years on our way to forever.THERE IS SOMEBODY OUT THERE FOR EVERYBODY.
2006-11-30 21:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by hjbergel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't want to be hard on you, but you need to pull your face of that screen and go outside, because whatever your looking for is not coming here. You need to go out there and see the world and meet people.
My best advice for you would be, don't look for a woman, because it will happen when it happens.
Just get your but off that seat and get out there, you'll see, that luck will blow your way, and if it doesn't, STOP LOOKING! It's just not meant to be, not yet.......just be patient, you have been for 22 years.....
Good luck.
2006-11-30 21:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the messages u r leaving
the age u r
stuff like that
if u r too old 4 a woman she probably wont want to b with u
if u have hobbies she doesnt like she might not be happy with that
if u still go to school(college) then look 4 some girls u might like there
go onto other sites like eharmony. com
my friends dad went on that site and now hes married to the woman he met on that site
2006-11-30 21:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by ☼tough lil cookie☼ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal opinion - the internet chat rooms are full of a lot of people just looking for some fun (at least most of the sites) if you want a serious relationship - stop looking so hard . the last thing you want to do is look desperate or settle for whoever emails you first
2006-11-30 21:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right, you will meet her. All the dating sites and services can't change fate. Sorry bro...just think, you have been forced to wait, because the woman you are destined to be with hasn't shown up yet. Imagine if you got stuck with the WRONG one???
2006-11-30 21:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sad to hear that. At least, I can tell you that you are not alone. Actually, I completely understand how you feel. I am too having difficulty finding the perfect lover. I'll tell you what... keep looking and hold on in there with me until wel find that special someone. :-)
2006-11-30 21:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I see you biggest problem...get off the internet!
Go around places that women commonly travel to (ex: coffee shops [even if you don't like coffee] or a place that interests you, or the all-containing mall)
2006-11-30 21:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by Li 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine joined a dating on line service, she isn't having any luck either, maybe the two of you should get together....
2006-11-30 21:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u looking at websites 2 find a girl try goin out places u will know when you have met the one
2006-11-30 21:26:27 · answer #11 · answered by catcfh1020 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋