the low down met a chick at the club sat called sunday we chatted and she said she'd call back to set something up hadn't heard from her yesterday(wed) and decided to call "just to chat" but no answer. left a breif message. wondering if i called too soon and crowded or seemed needy. i am probably just being paranoid she did say work was crazy busy. or could i be being counter-played so to speak
in our previous convo i had profeesed to being a bit of a geek but she seemed down. and the conversation didn't seemed forced or anything, i dunno.
2006-11-30 13:14:36 · 15 answers · asked by groovergabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i never think of being a geek as a bad thing its just a interest group comics games cartoons etc
2006-11-30 13:34:02 · update #1
no, I don't think you called too soon...however, let it go now, it's her turn...if she really wants to talk to you or get with you, she'll find or make the time...
If you don't hear from her over the weekend, I'd consider that a brush-off...
2006-11-30 13:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't call too soon. I am a female and I can honestly say she doesn't sound too interested. Don't call her anymore because you are just embarrassing yourself. Nobody is that busy at work where they can't at least call somebody when they get home. That is just a nice way of saying they are not interested.
There is not necessarily anything wrong with you except maybe some self confidence issues. Being a geek is not always a bad thing it might just mean she has different priorities and don't think the two of you have anything in common.
Don't sweat it anymore and find someone else, but don't try so hard because you won't find anyone worth being with that way.
2006-11-30 21:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by lakecity21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you called on Sunday wasn't the problem, that was actually a good thing, it was the fact that you called her again when she told you that she was going to call you. She probably took it as if you were sweating her and she is trying to avoid you..............or it could just be that she is busy and doesn't have an opportunity to chat..............but then again, when you really like someone, you make time - so, I'm going to go with the whole crowded and needy thing. Just wait it out and see what happens - DO NOT CALL HER AGAIN - if she calls then see where it goes, if she doesn't, then write her off as just another chicken head and move on, there are plenty more where she came from, good luck!
2006-11-30 21:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by qtee425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a follow up call on wed was fine, but one tip I'll give you is, never put yourself down. It comes off as being insecure and fishing for a compliment. That's a total turn off for a guy to do that your just starting to talk to. I wouldn't fret about it now, just don't do it any more in the future.
With out knowing her, it's hard to say if you're being counter played, but like you said she said work was crazy, so maybe she's just busy. Maybe wait a few more days, if she doesn't call, I would move on.
2006-11-30 21:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's into you, she'll call you back. Give it time.
Now you guys know what it's like when girls sit and wait for a guy to call. Now that you know how this feels, never make a girl wait for your call. She won't think you're eager if you call her the day after you meet. 5 minutes after you meet yes, but if you've slept on it and you still want to talk to her, DON'T MAKE HER WAIT!
2006-11-30 21:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are attracted to you and liked you the would make time to call you. Everyone has had a situation where they thought a guy or girl was going to call and they didn't. Move on and eventually you will meet your perfect match!
2006-11-30 21:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you called too early, but maybe she does. I'd like to tell you what other women think but, frankly, a lot of us don't make a lot of sense. If a person is interested they will call.
2006-11-30 21:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by Wendi lu who 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! I don't think U called too early.U acted on what U were feeling.No matter what happens that's a good thing.
2006-11-30 21:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on life too short she isnt the only girl in the world is she? come on dude be man anyways clubs arent the best place to meet people and by people i mean b/f or g/f material
2006-11-30 21:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by lululu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, when you called was fine. But if she doesn't call you back in the next few days chances are that she's not interested.
2006-11-30 21:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Eve 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋