So I was dating this guy for only two weeks that completely blew me off. That was over a year ago. He's all I think about. How do I foreget about him and go on with my life?
2006-11-29 13:33:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you only dated this guy for a very brief time you didn't really get to know him enough to fall in love; therefore, you created a fantastic image of this person. I'm sure your fertile imagination introduced someone incredibly irresistible and that is who you cannot forget. It's time for you to face reality and respect yourself enough to move on and expect the right person to enter your life. The past is over so please stop looking back over your shoulder because you'll never go forward until you let go of what no longer exists for you.
2006-11-29 13:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing. When you share yourself with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Being with someone is a special thing that is essentially always there.
Now i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, find someone new, get a life, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of attempting to find love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Relationships are a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when it ends bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
2006-11-29 21:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by micktobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? OMG. You only dated 2 weeks and after a year you still can't stop thinking about him?
I'm not trying to be mean, but you need to get a life. Like for real.
Do you not go out? Haven't you met any other ppl in a years time?
You need to move on emotionally, it's been a year, he blew you off. You need to accept it and move on.
Don't you think you deserve someone who really wants you?
2006-11-29 13:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, I know I know...
Focus on yourself first. What is it that you really like to do/who do you really like to be with? Spend a lot of time focused on hobbies, etc.
and, if possible date different guys but don't just date anyone. What I mean, is get out there and meet new people, but don't just settle for any random guy.
Find a hobby, project, something very very involving that will take your mind off the guy.
Remove any reminders of the guy totally...screen names, emails, pictures, notes, whatever.
2006-11-29 13:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Shanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you would think about someone who totally disrespected you, treated you worse than a stray dog in the street and has no feelings for you. You better get mad, because you are going to be a doormat that people wipe their feet on. Save your precious feelings for someone who deserves you, cut this lowlife out of your heart, right now and tell yourself every day that you are a fantastic person and you deserve to be happy. Make someone else happy!
2006-11-29 13:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to forget about the past i know that ... try asking him to still be freinds with you and maybe you two can get together me and my ex zack did it wasn't easy forgetting about him ... i still think about him all the time and its hard to have anyother relationships because you start to compare your ex with the guy/ girl that you are dating
try goin out and asking people or check out some therapy classes.. .they also work
2006-11-29 13:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two Weeks, girl give me a break, move on remember he has, moved on after you and him broke up that first day after the two weeks...quit wasting your time...
2006-11-29 13:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with your friends,get a hobby, and focus on your goals in life.
2006-11-29 13:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby, join a gym, take classes, in other words focus your mind elsewhere.
2006-11-29 13:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes this is really hard I havent had a disire to date for almost five years now and i am bestfriends with my ex which makes it really hard to get over someone.
2006-11-29 13:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by Renee B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋