Me and my friend both like the same girl, we both know i have a higher chance of getting her. But i don't want to hurt him. He's been known to cut in the years passed and i don't want that to happen but i really like this girl... HELP!!!
2006-11-29 13:18:58 · 8 answers · asked by himynameisbrandon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that you really like this girl, but, i know you're going to HATE to hear this, friends first. Friends are the most important things in your life along with family. You can't exclude this friend for a girl. But, you have to be fair, tell him that you won't get the girl and he won't get the girl either. Even if he's a terrible friend, you have to ask him. He is your friend after all. Ask him if you can get the girl. I'm really sorry!!! Good luck!! Hope you get her!!!
2006-11-29 13:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not worth it. friendships should be more important to you than a girl. girls will come and go, but you should make your friendships there to last forever, if they are your best friends. and as a caring friend, you should look after your friend so he doesn't cut. just talk to him and make an agreement that neither of you will get with her, then no one gets hurt...
2006-11-29 21:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by College Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - his cutting or not is NOT your fault and you can't let your choice be manipulated by his hurting himself. Is the girl more important than your friendship with him?
2006-11-29 21:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are still in High School or less its not worth it. If you are friends with him and have been for a long time. There are plenty of fish in the sea man. TRUST ME dont ruin your friendship with him.
2006-11-29 21:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to like her, just be careful...if you trust him and he's a close friend, he's more important than a girlfriend...you dont want to lose someone you trust. believe me, they dont come around that often.
2006-11-29 21:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by _heartbreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha maybe.... very crazy idea but....... both of you come to her and tell her that both of you like her. and that she has an opportunity to choose one of you... so go on a date with you rself, your friend and her....... just let her to get to know you better and then she can choose.......
it will be like elimadate.........
2006-11-29 21:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose friendship , this is experience talking.
p. s. Jesus loves you.
2006-11-29 21:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by sarabasti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about u solve his cutting problem first...??
2006-11-29 21:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋