Ok, I am 17 y/o and have only been with one other guy besides my current boyfriend. We have only dated for almost two months now. But I have never done oral sex before. He is asking me to but I am scared because I don't know if I will do it right. I don't want to get embarrased so can anybody give a girl a couple of pointers? He also said that he wants me to swallow, what does it taste like?
2006-11-29 07:41:54 · 16 answers · asked by ... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
#1 you're too young to be doing things like that.
#2 are you aware of the deseases you may contract.
#3 aren't you worried about AIDS/HIV, and STDs, you can still get
these deseases without having sex, and most of all they'll be more noticeable on your face!
2006-11-29 07:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sabine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off the swallowing thing is your choice, it turns them on, its not that great some people dont mind it I just dont think it necessary so the way I get out of it Is just say would you swallow it or if you will then I will and that should be the end of it. As far as doing it the best thing is to be into it and watch the teeth but besides that you are expected to get them aroused if there not already wether that is kissing or touching i'm not sure for your guy but after that I mean its self explanatory I feel weird but i'm trying ok maybe use your toungue up and down a couple of times while keeping your hand around the base w/some pressure also at the same time moving your hand up and down while using your toungue eventually putting it in your mouth usually when going up and down while in your mouth keep your toungue flat against it as much as you can, when your uncomfortable use your hand while taking a break use both whatever you can being comfortable and confident while doing is the biggest turn on and dont be afraid to have him tell you and you say like this it makes for a much better and closer relationship anyways I spent way to many years feeling like you do and its one of those things that when you look back is stupid, oh it also helps if your sexually in tune w/yourself hope that you are if not experiment and explore you can please him that well if you cant please yourself good Luck KIMBUR
2006-11-29 07:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing to be embarassed about sweetie! know that first. the only way to find out is to experience yourself. do things you think he might enjoy and you'll know by the feedback he'll be sure to give you. he wants you to swallow? typical. lol well it's a taste that ranges from boy to boy and tastebuds. most people say it's salty whereas my bf sometimes it is, sometimes it doesn't really have a taste. if you do swallow, there are some upsides and that's *** is full of nutrients and can help whiten your teeth for one thing! lol um but as for pointers.. if you can deep throat without gagging, he'll really enjoy that. if not just try doing things with your tongue or swirling or things like that!
hope I've been helpful!
oh yeah also I'd like to note that no where in your question did you say that he was forcing you and people who say you clearly aren't ready are dumb because nobody knew everything and wasn't a lil scared or embarassed their first time, so pay no mind to them. if you feel it's time to take the next step, then go for it.
and keep this in mind you gain true knowledge by experience.
2006-11-29 07:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by .:*giggles*:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule number one of oral: only do it if YOU feel like doing it. Otherwise, you would do a sloppy job.
Rule number two: only swallow if you feel like swallowing, otherwise you will gag. It doesnt taste like anything really, just a lil salty I guess, but some girls gag cause it feels weird when its coming out.
So, if you still feel like going downtown, then do this: you stroke, you lick, you suck. Its simple. Stroke the bottom part while you lick the head, sides,etc. (move your mouth up and down the thing), at the same time GENTLY play with his ballsack, they like that.
You will get better as you get older and you get more experienced. As long as you are not scared of his "thing" and you enjoy the moment, you should be ok. Think of it as pleasuring yourself and not him and you will be ok. Practice with lollipops, go ahead, go crazy!! lol
Remember to do it for yourself, not because your boyfriend wants you to. You will both enjoy it better, trust me. You will know when you are ready...comes with feeling more comfortable with the whole intimacy part itself.
Good luck!!
PS: Swallowing is a big deal, so unless you already love this guy I wouldnt do it so soon, give him something to wait on.
2006-11-29 07:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 23:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by holstein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should only do it if YOU WANT to, and not because he asked you to. If you find that you do want to have oral with him, then it would be best to communicate to him that you really need some assistance. I honestly don't think you've been dating long enough to have that really solid communication thing going, but I'd just tell him that it's my first time, please be patient, and guide me through it. The swallowing thing is not my style, but the pre-ejaculation tastes salty, so I guess the actual thing is as well. Um, good luck?
2006-11-29 07:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by keipitright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One he should not be asking you. you should do it when you want to and when your ready. Don't worry if you decide to do it it comes natural. Don't be scared the worst you can do is bite it or gag to death. Heres a pointer don't swallow it taste like nasty salty warm snot in your mouth. If any more questions email me at igotursexybck@yahoo
2006-11-29 07:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy only wants you for sex...he doesn't want you for you. I'd break up with him if I were you. He doesn't love you. He may say he does, but I know for a fact he doesn't.
2006-11-29 07:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your mom could give you some pointers on this subject.
2006-11-29 07:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl if you are asking this question you clearly arent ready for it. take your own time and dont get pressurized into doing it. if he really cares about you, he would understand why you want to wait.
clearly you arent mature enough..
2006-11-29 07:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by L W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋