he called me up until yesterday...I have not heard from him since. He says he wants a break, so I told him I would give him is space. Do you think I will see him again?
If you could please answer this honestly, I would really appreciate it.
Thanks!!!
2006-11-29 07:38:48 · 33 answers · asked by ArticExplosion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darling, this is very good advice I am going to give you. NEVER.....EVER wait on a man to call you. At soon as you are cut loose, you get busy on yourself, get your hair and nails done (don't you wanna get one that doesn't need a break?) and go out with friends to seea movies, shopping at the mall (for that cutie over there) take a course at the local college, volunteer for some worthy close to your heart charity (great time of year to do that) and never sit by the phone waiting. Nothing is more pathetic than a woman waiting on a man to come to his senses. The fact of the matter is, it rarely works to a womans favor. Most men just use that as an excuse to go fishing for women, so don't be moping around, get out and about. Besides nothing is more attractive to a man than a woman who be the one that got away if they don't hop on it. Besides, a man doesn't take a break from his car, does he? No, only when he's shopping for a new one. So get a clue and give him the boot in your mind and move onto Mr. Right, this one isn't it! Good luck!
2006-11-29 07:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess the normal answer you will recieve for this is that he's lying to you and dump his behind or something. But I like o look at the positive side of it. I say give him a chance. Maybe he really needs a bit of space. Give it a little time. Don't be hasty in making any rash decisions. Have believe that you will hear from him again. But do ask him what he means from space. Surely he is your fiancee and you two must stay in constant touch on some level. If he insists on a total break, then i'm sorry, but you are probably not going to hear from him again. So judge on all these points and others that you might find useful and then come to a conclusion.
I hope the above can help you a bit. Stay happy!
2006-11-29 07:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably will, maybe he just needs some time to realize weather or not marriage is right for him. I don't know how old you are but marriage is a very scary and big decision and I wouldn't take it lightly. Take this from someone married and divorced twice by 31. Just be patient and get to know you and don't sit around and wait on him just go on with your day to day (I know easier said than done) and if it is true love and meant to be he will come back. I just recently started dating my 1st ex-husband after being separated for 6 years. Neither of us thought it would ever happen again and it did so you can't tell but don't waste your time crying just take care of you and make you happy and if he comes around great; if not then you know now before you invested too much time, money and energy into a marriage. Good Luck!!
2006-11-29 07:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by niner_girl_since_83 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say a definite yes, but if he loves you and misses you will he's on this break maybe he'll see what he's missing and know that it's right. It could also be cold feet. There's also a chance he might find someone else. So it's really a 50% chance of each. Sorry if i made you mad. just telling the truth. Good Luck! I wish you the best!!!
2006-11-29 07:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by ML 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you where together and how much love you have for one another. Maybe he is feeling the pressure of settling down and just needs to figure out if its the way he wants his life to go. Also, if you two have been arguing and fighting a lot, he may be trying to decide if its worth it. So give him some space and just let him know that your there for him but also that you won't wait 4ever.
2006-11-29 07:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off without him! Any man who says he needs or wants space, he is definitely no longer in love with you. He has seen someone else and plans to go with her.
Am sorry love, but that's possible even though it hurts. I won't wait around for him. I'd say the best way to get over him is to find someone else fast. Chill out and go out and party and have fun.
One thing to remember is if he leaves you now, then he is not worth you. Dump him fast!
2006-11-29 07:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make a clean break. If he dumped you, then take the high road and cut the jerk off. The only way he'll come back and the relationship can ever be healthy again is if he respects you. But relationships that are prone to breakups won't last.
2006-11-29 07:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How became she no longer honest with you? Did you come back perfect out and ask her if she is or were married previously? purely because she did not volunteer that information doesn't make her dishonest. besides, 6 weeks is way too quick to imagine about marrying someone. it really is a ideal get mutually of ways you ought to get to understand someone first previously you rush into issues. in case you had taken extra time you probable would have got here upon out and it does no longer were a huge deal.
2016-11-29 22:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will. Take it from a guys perspective. My gf pressures me alot about marriage. Not that I don't love her but to have real trust in someone can be difficult. I think he just needs some time to think about things and he'll call you. It would be strange for a fiance to just drop off the radar with nothing more than a phone call.
2006-11-29 07:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by bizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him be. Perhaps he is not ready for marriage or to settle down. There are plenty of fish in the sea and I am sure you will find someone else better. Think of it this way, maybe something was going to happen to both of you during your marriage that would have you end up getting hurt. It's better to let him go and move on.
2006-11-29 07:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋