I want to flirt with a man via email, but don't want to be sooo obvious about it, because I truly don't know if he is interested. We email regularly, general things... but I want to see if I can go further. Should I just be blunt and go for it, and risk the friendship? What are some fun ways to flirt, things to say, and still be cool about it ?
2006-11-29 07:23:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are talking (email) ask him whats going on for the weekend and if he says hes going out pretend to be shocked that he would go out without you... "You're going there... without me... im hurt..." but with a tone the he KNOWS your joking around - but it may be enough if he likes you to let him know that you can see yourself hanging out with him... If he's not interested then there is no harm done because it was totally jokey... If hes staying in say something like you're going to stay inside all alone what fun is that... maybe he will invite you over - again do it in an over exagerated jokey way. Now if he mentions hanging with a mom or Girlfriend - dont carry out these comments
2006-11-29 07:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by ice_princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, just be yourself. Second, don't do it over email. One of the most important things in communication is lost when you do it over the internet (vocal impression, like how you can tell when someone is angry by their voice, or when they're being sarcastic) If you MUST flirt online (i don't recommend it) when you talk to him about random stuff, just make little jokes. Create inside jokes that you both can laugh about. It creates a memory, and it connects it to fun times with you. That's one of the best ways to be remembered and to start a relationship.
2006-11-29 15:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The primary thing to remember is to have fun with it. You could start an e-mail with something like....'hey good looking' for example, or you could include something about your plans for the weekend...such as I can't wait to go to the Bob Seger concert this weekend....not sure what I'll do with the extra ticket, my sister/neice/friend planned to go but had to change her plan and ask what he's got planned. Keep it light. Have fun
2006-11-29 15:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
include emoticon :-* or >:D< in your messages if you don't want to go with the kiss right away do the one with the batting eyelashes not sure how to do it. Or if you chat on yahoo messenger change the background theme. with internet you can't be as coy as in real life you have to say hey would you like to go do something sometime. or most of us wouldn't get the point. speaking on behalf of the guys.
2006-11-29 15:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by Grev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to start flirting is to be funny...yes, use lots of humor n one point start connecting yourself to him. tell him things like hey be aware, u might get kidnapped very soon by a big fat guy...he will be like huh, what do u mean...then u will say actually this time i told santa that i wanted u as present this christmas.(then start laughing)
do surprise flirting too like tell him, hey remember u owe me $10.when am i getting it back...he will be like huh?? u will say i am just playing with u.
don't be serious...this will rather make u look desperate.
2006-11-29 15:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting by email involves emailing short, cute responses quickly to his emails and emailing lots of "thinking about you this minute" type messages (ie., how was your lunch?(eom), are you having a good afternoon? (eom), and the quite bold "sweet dreams - hope I'm in them" (eom)). Quick reply let's him know that he is important to you and on your mind often.
2006-11-29 15:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Signilda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmm have u ever met the person??? if not then i suggest you stop this immediately how can you trust someone you don't even know how they look. and if you already seen them then, i would recommend you try ending your letters with something like *huggs* and *kisses* something sweet instead of thanks, regards, or sincerely and see how he replies in the next email.
2006-11-29 15:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by NY has spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f you have seen his picture, just say you have nice eyes smile,love your emails but could we met for coffee if you can
2006-11-29 15:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by ladyoh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not the best idea to flirt with smb via email... i have done it...and its really not a very clever thing to do...try sth else
2006-11-29 15:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, you have nothing to lose and maybe everything to gain. Be clear about your feelings. If he wants to take a new level, he will respond.
2006-11-29 15:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by GRUMPY1LUVS2EAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋