If ur close female friend tells you this:(after I told her how I felt)…..
1) "I can't imagine you not being in\a part of my life" MEANING???
2)"I don't deserve your feelings"? MEANING???
I then told her a few weeks later that I needed a break from her and she DISAGREED\WAS RUDE TOWARDS ME as a result---does it mean anything???
She said friends don’t take breaks and that I should get a grip---MEANING?
My reason was that she was behaving odd towards me and I thought it best we have some time apart.Especially for me to get over my feelings.
Have said I value our friendship and I mean that.
Advice?
Has not spoken to me since,told me to do "whatever"-MEANING? What she feeling\thinking?
p.s.she don't like talking about it. Has been in touch and told me to sort my head out+stop causing this “conflict”.
Its like she doesn't want me,but doesn't want anyone else to have me.(she gets jealous when I mention other girls)
2006-11-26 09:10:15 · 5 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Her actions are very clear, she is freaked by your interest in her. She likes you as a friend only. Meaning? back off. She doesn't want to hurt you cause she values your friendship. "Breaks" imply you are more than friends. If you dont want to lose her friendship you have to get over her FAST!
2006-11-26 09:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by twinkletoes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOme of her responsescould show dependency, possessiveness, guilt inducing control. If you like that then stick with her, but it does not seem to be what you want at the moment. Have you read any Don Miguel Ruiz r example The MAstry of Love which is a very simple book. Perhaps buy or borrow a copy and leave it open on the kitchen table. You might check out advice online or consider if you or she or both need to see a relationship counsellor
2006-11-26 18:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by kenjinuk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviou. sly need time apart to sort out your relationship. Good friends often need time apart. Space often gives you a fresh perspective on your relationship. Perhaps you may needcounselling from someone who knows more about what is going inside your girlfriends head.
2006-11-26 17:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how many times are u going to ask this question?
u have serious hang ups about this woman
I think she is better off without u
2006-11-26 17:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by rachel d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we dont really want to hear the full conversatin...boooooring.......whats your question MEANING???
2006-11-26 23:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋