Why is it that all guys want to do is make out and have sex and girls try to have a relationship? It is so hard to find a guy who actually listens to what you say and cares about your opinions and crap instead of just waiting until you stop talking and jump on you.
2006-11-26 09:09:33 · 16 answers · asked by m_rae0232 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would have to say that you are looking for guys in the wrong place. If you want to find a guy who "...actually listens to what you say and cares about your opinions..." then you have to find a guy who is attracted to you because of what you say and is interested in your opinion, not because of the way you look. You should try joining a club or an organization you are interested in. Be yourself and say what you feel. Show off your brain, and maybe you'll find what you're looking for.
2006-11-26 09:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they don't...so your question isn't relevant in that regard. ALL guys don't do anything the same...nor do ALL girls.
Some guys want just sex...some girls want just sex...some guys want a relationship...some girls want a relationship...some guys don't like chicks that talk a lot...some chicks don't like guys that talk a lot...
If you were less opinionated, and had less 'crap' in your life, perhaps more guys would want to date you than just lay you.
2006-11-26 17:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its kinda stereotyping to say guys in general are like that. And yes it is hard to find a guy like that. I myself only just found one a few months ago. Just keep searching. Your heart will help u find that guy. Good luck!
2006-11-26 17:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by texaschick2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys today,,really wants to have sex,,it is very rare to find a serious guy who really cares...my advice is not to give up yourself too soon to a guy who are not so serious about you,,,believe me,,he needs to respect you and understand you,,you should dominate the guy,,if you dont want to have sex then dont...You should not be submissive to guys,,after all we guys are submissive to you when it comes to have sex,,,keep the faith darling
2006-11-26 17:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Diet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always that way. There are exceptions to the rule. It's just easy to see others through society's eyes. And society says "men are shallow and women want meaning". That is not always the case.
2006-11-26 18:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to find a guy like that somewhere out there. Just make sure you get to know them before making any assumptions.
2006-11-26 17:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Zaiza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well see heres the thing...some guys act soooo sweet and gentle and then they just turn around on u...so make sure ur careful with who u pick out. ask around a little...but dont go overboard on him...it may freak him out. there are freaks out there and gentle men, and many other kinds of guys...just give it time
2006-11-26 17:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by animal_lover_3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha! That's cute! Not all guys want that. You just haven't found a gentlemen yet. They're out there, trust me.
2006-11-26 17:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by damsel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because some people just don't have time for time... in other words no patience. Some people
need to learn to take it slow and/or slow down.
2006-11-26 17:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by PrettyEyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think that it is very possible. i had the same thoughts until i met a certain person and he has changed my life
2006-11-26 17:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋