i was talking to a girl who was 6 years older then me when i was 19 and she was 25 we got along great but she said that there could never be nething more solely becuz of the age difference.
2006-11-26 09:08:46 · 19 answers · asked by mjfox2300 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if maturity shows between the two.
2006-11-26 09:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 25 and I have been out with a 21 year old man. My current boyfriend is 27, but if he had been 19, I wouldn't care. I have contemplated a relationship with 37 and 41 year old men.
I don't have a problem with age differences, but everyone is different according to the way they are brought up and how ther are influenced by what they see and do as they grow up.
Personally I would say age doesn't matter. If you meet someone and you want to take it further, go for it no matter your age. One thing to bare in mind, though, women like a certain amount of maturity in a man. If you have it, don't hide it. Show her you are good enough for her despite your youth, unless of course she is just making excuses.
2006-11-26 09:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all a preference thing. If you asked me a year ago if I could see a guy that was younger than me, I would have said no way. Since then, I have met someone younger and we have so much in common. More than guys my own age. We get along great. I will never again say age matters.
2006-11-26 09:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine its completely ok. Age doesnt matter in any respect. Im absolutely 15 yet I have an uncle who's 29 and his lady is 34 years previous and they are proper for eachother and that is the way all for the era of my family contributors. Ask her how she feels about that and confirm and tell her its tremendous and in simple terms act like your older than her and which skill you ought to be mature because ladies mature way swifter than adult men. So in simple terms practice her you may deal with her and seem after her. sturdy success with each and every thing!
2016-11-26 23:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's right. Although you're old enough to date her, yet not old enough to do "all" the legal things an adult of 25 can do... You're just out of high school and she's probably graduating from college... See the difference? At 19 you're out to have fun and explore the world, whereas, she's probably ready to have a family...Can provide that? Are you ready for that?
2006-11-26 09:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by motherkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think age really matters. I think that she might have thought that age mattered then just because you were just out of high school and she'd been out in the real world for a few years longer, but that shouldn't stop anything if you guys really liked one another.
2006-11-26 09:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 39, my bf is 28. Had I met him 10 years ago, I wouldn't have gone near him. We've been together 2 years now. Would have to say, it's all about what we have in common, how we treat each other, our maturity levels match up 95% of the time.
2006-11-26 09:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhat...but six years is no big deal. I've dated a guy 7 years younger than I am. I've also dated a guy 8 years older, as well. However (unfortunately) you can not change her mind unless she wants to change. If she says that there will never be anything between you two, her mind is set.
2006-11-26 10:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 and 25 is a big difference...also depends on how mature you are too.I have always been with people alot older than me and usually the age difference does matter.
2006-11-26 09:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age kinda does matter cuz some people dont think that its right when there is more than a 2 year difference. but another thing is that some girls would rather be younger than the guy
2006-11-26 09:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by lost_in_thought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i did have tha same problem im 12 and he was 16 i did not care about the age because luv does crazy things i did not care that he said ye but i was to young u should just follow ur heart.
2006-11-26 09:11:30 · answer #11 · answered by shontal c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋