There's this guy I've been talking to online off and on, for about 3 months now. We went for about 1.5 months w/o any mutual communicaton. I left him a couple of messages that I know he read, but he didn't reply. Then two weeks ago, I went to his website and he had some new pics. I sent him a msg. telling him I liked his new pics and I didn't understand why we hadn't talked in so long. Long story short, we picked it back up and began planning a meeting which was going to be tonight. I last talked to him on Wed. but haven't anymore since do to the Holidays...he hasn't been online. I phoned him last night to verify that our plans for tonight was still on and left a message on his voicemail, but as of right now, I have yet to hear back from him. We hadn't pinpointed exactly where we were going to meet so I can't just swing by and see if he's there. And tomorrow, I know he'll have some lame *** excuse...I like him but I do not have time in my life to play games. What should I do?
2006-11-26 09:06:31 · 6 answers · asked by Doogie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not contact him anymore. Whatever his story is doesn't really matter. What matters is that he isn't contacting you and you are feeling unsure of yourself. Why would you want to be with someone who makes you unsure of yourself? You should only be with people who treat you in a respectable and kind manner. If he has issuse that's fine, it's just not your problem. It is easier to let him go now and get over it than to hang on and keep getting your hopes up so that they can be trashed. Don't waste time waiting for what may happen or finding out how he may or may not feel. Move on. Games are for children.
Do not call him and do not go see him. If he calls with an excuse tell him you don't want to continue getting to know him. Thanks but no thanks. If he wants a reason just tell him he appears to be beneath your maturity level but "no hard feelings". Move on.
2006-11-26 09:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that he's not that into you....nothing against you, but you need to lay off, since you are putting 100% of the effort into this relationship.....how's that working for you?
If you want to continue to beat your head against a wall (and break your heart in the process) then by all means, continue to call, message, stalk, etc......
If you want to refuse to settle for someone not 100% into you, then let this one go and find another fish in the sea....there's lots of them....in the real world, NOT ONLINE!!
2006-11-26 09:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by McBeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He might be gay. Think about it...... He haven't return any of your phone calls, you have made plans, and didn't return your e-mails. Most likely he might be GAY! If he was involved with another female he probably would have said something. My advice to you is if he don't call 2night move on. Good Luck!!!!
2006-11-26 09:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by red334chip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like he is opened minded to you. This shouldn't keep on happening. You should break up with him. He isn't someone to be with if he isn't even going to Email you back. Hope this advice helps you more than I can think it would.
2006-11-26 09:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by GG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on His LOSS! likely a heart breaker anyways.
2006-11-26 09:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mail him a pair of your panties and say nothing about it. Except use your return address. If that doesn't get his attention nothing will.
2006-11-26 09:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋