i think my daughter is thinking of having sex what should i do?

Question

should i tell her what it can do to her what to do or tell her how to protect herself because i know she wont listen to me

Answer 1

Tell her to wait until marriage. It will be so much better then. there are too many emotions that follow up with sex.

Answer 2

Talk to her about it, teach her how to protect herself from pregnancy and STD's. You won't be able to stop her from doing it. We had this discussion at work the other day, how old we were when we first did it, how our parents had the "talk", birth control, etc. I was 17, went on the pill about 6 months before that. My mom never talked to me about sex, she tried before I went to COLLEGE, I said "I could probably tell you some things", she left it at that. My coworker, went on the pill and her mom found out, took them away from her. Said " you're too young to be having sex", well, she got pregnant at 17. Teenagers are doing things younger and younger, if they are going into "battle", they need to be armed to survive and make the best choices.

Answer 3

ok i bet im going to get flamed for this one but here goes!!!!
first off you have to be honest with yourself (that is the hard part) then you have to be honest with your daughter! ( that is going to be the hardest thing you ever do).....people "DONT LIE TO YOUR CHILDREN".....
you really needed to input more information than you did ! how old is your daughter? under 13 ? may not have had sex yet! over 13 ? you are just likely to be to late!
how old were you when you first had sex?
were you the good girl/guy?
did you have sex with more than one partner before you got married?
are you married now?
divorced?
is your sex life what you think it should be?
do you lie to your partner before /during / after sex?
and last but not least ...do you lie to your self about your sex life?
ok , i know most of you out there will ask this question...what the Heck does that have to do with you kids having sex, belive it or not everything! if you cant be honest with your self than what do expect of your kids?
can you talk to your kids about those questions and tell them the truth?
you can scare the hell out of them with the "TALK" about aids and the rest of the medical book and then there is the fact of how are you going to take care of a child (YOUR SO YOUNG),and love etc etc...and in the end here is the punch line.........
you "CAN NOT STOP WHAT THEY DO" ! ! !
did it stop you? ? ? ? ? ? not me nor my wife! ! ! ! ! we just hid it best as we could!!!
OH and here is the best surprise....she WILL listen to you ! ! ! ! all you have to do is just give her a chance and respect and most of all some real love and kindness! love also comes in the form of tuff love , the hardest.

Answer 4

Your daughter is curious about her sexuality at this stage.I dont think there is anything you can do to stop her the important thing is to make sure she d do it in a safe environment by offering her and her boyfriend could sleep over if he wish.secondly be open about it ,she needs guideance and a friend not someone nagging her about whats not good for .She is a young adult now so if you treat her with understanding and respect she would listen to you.Give her as much info in regards to sexual protection as you could possibly can.if youre embarass talking to her about it.you could send her to a good doctor that you know.

Answer 5

How old is she? You were supposed to have been educating her so far as AIDS is concerned. The worst problem is that the two of you have not received the Lord Jesus as your personal saviour and Lord. If that was done she will obey you , she will wait to be married before thinking of such things. The Lord Jesus delivers from the love of sex outside marriage.
Only the Lord Jesus can bring in a solution to your worry and if you surrender your life to Him, He will help.

Answer 6

Sit down with her and have an open and honest conversation with her> if you know that she is thinking of having sex then obviously she feels comfortable talking to you about it.Be truth ful about birth control,pregnancy and stds,But be prepared that she may just do it anyway so Maybe tell her that if she needs to please come to you first so you can help her get the appropriate birth control.

Answer 7

let her know she can tell you anything no matter what and if she opens up to you don't go and blast on her maybe try to tell her you know what she is going through and maybe you can share you first time experience with her. whether or not you say OK go have sex if she really wants to do it she will so by yelling at her or what not its only going to make her more curios. yes you should tell her how to protect her self maybe even by her some condoms. i know its hard to see your little girl going through this but believe me it will be ok

Answer 8

You could talk to her about birth control and getting her on the pill, unfortunatly teens can be very rebellious if you have a go at her and tell her not too. Atleast if she is on the pill and you can provide her with condoms, she is safe. How old is she?

Answer 9

You should have a good talk with her. Protection against pregnancy and std's would be first on my list. I would also talk about the emotional aspects. She might get a reputation and point out that all men dogs, until they mature, then a few out grow it.

Answer 10

Discuss different birth control methods with her and make it clear that you're there if she needs to talk. Tell her that you support her and advise her that she should only have sex if she feels completely ready for it. If she wants, take her to the doctor for birth control pills.

Answer 11

Just talk to her let her know she can tell you anything and make sure u give her that FEELING don't just say it. Tell her what could happen what you believe how your 1st went what she can do to protetc herself ect........ be as open as possible try to be a friend and a mom. Good luck!