So we work in this office, and I happened to notice how different she is from other girls, and I like that. I've dropped her a few hints that I'm interested in her, and I'm pretty sure she knows that I'm interested, but how can I tell if she's interested in me? I hardly get to talk to her, we just say Hi sometimes and make very, very small talk, I hardly know her, but I know she's single (from a friend of hers) ... I asked her for her email and she gave it to me. She's a nice girl, and I want to get to know her. But how do I tell if she's interested? Shes not showing it?
2006-11-24 13:18:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out in a way that gives her the option of letting you down really, really nicely. For example, send her an email suggesting that you go for drinks the next evening after work. If she's so shy that she can't deal with rejecting you she can just not reply to the email. You could also phone and leave a message on her machine at a time when you know she's not at home or at the office. Then she can ignore your message if that's easier for her. And then, be a gentleman and don't get pissed off if she doesn't get back to you. As you said, she's really shy!
2006-11-24 13:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say exactly how she is different from other girls, but that might be a good thing to mention to her, by email if necessary. Tell her what you like about her, and ask her if she'd like to join you for a pizza or something.
If you have totally flipped over her, the feeling doesn't necessarily have to be mutual. If she thinks you seem like a nice guy, and she's a little curious about you, that's really all you need to work with.
One other thing, email might not be the best way to ask her out. The telephone would be better. Send her your phone number, by email, and ask her to give you a call.
You don't even have to ask for her number. In fact, that might be a good test of her interest. If she decides to reciprocate, by giving you her number, that tells you something.
2006-11-24 13:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep emailing her let her get use to you, and while your talking to her on email try and find out what kinds of things she likes to do.. then one day when your talking to her at work say hi so and so this movie is playing tha tyou like or this sport thing you enjoy is happening. Why don't you and me go and check it out. Don't tell her would you like to go out on a date with me. just keep it low key like its no big think so you won't make her nervous and just be casual about it. but you will have a better chance if you continue talking to her on email and work first before going in for the kill and asking her out lol.
good luck
2006-11-24 13:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her sometime and start talking. Be sure to have some topics in mind.
Girls like that, and if you're very casual they won't seem threatened.
She's probably interested in you because you seem like a sweet enough guy.
2006-11-24 13:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like what befell to me. What that guy did substitute into he waited for me on the bustop prevalent even nonetheless his bus wasn't at that bustop. i could see him walk away style the bustop as quickly as I have been given on the bus. there substitute right into a pair of times while he took the bus with me for fairly the way even nonetheless he lives on the different end of city. I propose that element we've not even talked to a minimum of one yet another yet yet he in basic terms sat in the back of me on the bus and dropped off interior the middle of no the place. It substitute into very candy (nonetheless we did not celebration interior the tip) because of the fact I had fairly weigh down on him too yet i assume it may be creepy if he stumbled on as a stalker lol. It wasn't till I went as much as him and pronounced hi that all of us started speaking. perhaps you may look ahead to her on the bustop and say hi and make some casual verbal substitute. do this a pair of circumstances. Make her experience which you're going out of your thank you to get to understand her. That'll be so candy. do not would desire to ask her out precise away yeah? or you may get carry of her friends and discover out greater approximately this woman from them....her friends will actually unfold that *somebody* seems to be attracted to her
2016-10-13 01:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's shy, she probably isn't going to make the first move...you'll have to. Just start talking to her, she'll probably begin to warm up to you if you make an effort to talk to her. After you are able to hold a conversation together without awkward pauses every 5 minutes, ask her out.
2006-11-24 13:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Brown Eyed Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...I wouldn't ask her in an e-mail-unless you're a freshman in high school. I would just ask her out for some coffee and try to have conversations with her to help the both of you open up.
Good luck!
2006-11-24 13:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should ask her out for a date or something romantic. Then tell her exactly how you feel about her. trust me..there's no other best ways than talk to her face to face especially because she's a shy girl like me. Then when you already told her..ask her how she feels about you. hope this helps. good luck!!!! ; )
2006-11-24 13:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of writing here, you should be taking her out to dinner, and a movie. Quit wishing, get some backbone, and just ask her out for a nice evening out, or doing something.
2006-11-24 13:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the traditional way.Write a letter and leave it on her table.If you don't get a reply,leave your e-mail address to her and ask her to e-mail you whenever she's free.Even if she's shy,she will write to show her interest.If not,it will be otherwise.
2006-11-24 13:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋