having a bit of a complicated situation with a girl and I have no idea what to do
met a girl 2 years ago, she had a bf at the same but i immediately felt an attraction. last year, we would flirt a lot and the feeling of attraction was still there, drunkenly we were very close to kissing but it never happened, then she got together with another guy for a few months but during that time when we were drunk she would ask me about what girls i have liked, fishing for me to say her
this year i am with a different girl,the gf, but a few nights agothis girl and i talked drunkenly again, very flirty. a few days ago, we were both very drunk ata party, and i told her how i felt, we kissed a few times but then i rejected her when she wanted more because the gf was there. talked lot about the gf
the next day in a txt i asked if the feeligns r mutual. vague response. then if she wants to do lunch soon, rejected that. i dont see her often so dont kno how to get in touch. how do i keep her interested?
2006-11-22 06:04:38 · 5 answers · asked by w mcsign 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some interesting responses
my description was pretty bad because i only had 1000 characters
the basic idea is we've both felt the attraction for a while, and it only comes out drunkenly because (a) that is often the only environment we meet and (b) our feelings come out then, even though we feel they maybe shouldnt
note: the gf is not actually my girlfriend, just someone i have been dating for a bit, just used "gf" for the sake of desription
now that the feelings are finally out there, i'd like to try to take it further, and definitely in a sober environment. however, i normally only see her when we go out with mutual friends, and my suggestion of meeting for lunch was rejected
2006-11-22 06:16:56 · update #1
why keep her interested? so you can keep rejecting her?
break up with the girlfriend you have now, you obviously don't know how to treat her, and go after this girl that seems to be drunk all the times you guys are together.
good luck!
2006-11-22 06:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by killer boot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question?
Why do you want to keep her interested. She don't want you. If you want her drope the girl you are with and go all out and try to get her. Two things will happen you if continue to hunt this girl down: you will turn into a stalker(jail time, messed life) or you will mess around she will shot you for stalking her. Either way will be on the news. NO MEANS NO.
2006-11-22 14:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by haywardn32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You reject a girl several times and she will come back but apparently, you dont know how to treat the oppisite sex so if i were you, id start reading books on how to attract a female.
2006-11-22 14:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by akjgo94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could suggest you both join Alcoholics Anon. together. You guys get drunk way too much!
2006-11-22 14:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by on2lifesjourney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop getting drunk with her and have a normal sober conversation for once.
2006-11-22 14:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋