I have a crush on this guy but my friend also has a crush on him and if i tell her she become angry and never talk to me forever. i am so confused.Because she is a very close friend and she goes on and on about him.What should i do.
2006-11-22 04:45:39 · 14 answers · asked by D girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, did you start to have a crush on him prior to her liking him? Or did you start liking him after she told you she liked him? This can be a very difficult situation. If you want to keep your friendship with this girl, then either one of your or both of you has got to stop liking him. Are you willing to let one guy ruin your friendship? There are plenty of guys. I know it's easier said than done to give up on the guy, but it is the best solution. Good luck!
2006-11-22 04:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a sticky situation. If your friend will really react that way then she really isn't a good friend any way. However, normally I always say never to let guys come between friends. Is he really worth all the trouble? You will have to weigh your options and make that decision on your own! Good luck
2006-11-22 12:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask your self is this guy worth your friend ship.
if he is then go for it.
but just remember bf's come and go. friends are forever
there are many other guys.
does he like her or does he like you?
don't fight or argue over a guy, they are not worth it.trust me.
talk to you friend. ask her if she thinks this is worth your friend ship. it's sounds to me like, she really likes him. so let her know that if she continues to be jealous over a guy that is not even her bf there relationship will not even work, because of her jealousy,
guys don't like jealous girls. he would break up w/ her in no time at all.
give her the same treatment that she gives you. don't talk to her. she'll come around sooner or later.
so let her stew is her Owen crap. you don't have to Deall with a friend like that.
just tell her rite straight out. a true friend doesn't treat a friend like she does you.
I'm sure you have other friends, hang out with them, then she will come around. don't give her the satisfaction of getting the best of you.
and her is not
2006-11-22 13:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything to your friend about your interest in this guy. Strike up a conversation with the guy and see what happens. If he's interested in you, she may be mad and dump you. However, then you would know that she wasn't truly your friend because she's so immature....
2006-11-22 12:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait for him to make a move and if he likes your friend then accept it but if he likes you then go for it because some things in the world are worth losing your friend for like your soulmate. Plus you can always get a new friend.
2006-11-22 12:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by talk_to_the_hand!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waite for him to make the move and then figure it out. I lost a few good friends over things.
2006-11-22 12:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there, your friends come first no matter what and if she likes him then you should just back off. Believe me, my relationship with my best friend was destroyed because I did exactly what I'm telling you not to do.
2006-11-22 12:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ally 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Push her off a cliff x
2006-11-22 12:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by Birdy is my real name 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone better to brag about.
2006-11-22 12:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Low 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either just get a new crush or flirt with him when she isn't around ;)
2006-11-22 12:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋