is not like i dont do anything 4 him its just that he has more money then i do and he will go get food and bring it to me n the morning and he will get me candy and put it into my locker. i would love to do that but i have no time with work and sports. also its not like he spends a lot of money but its just the thought of it. soo i feel bad sometimes b/c i dont do that 4 him.
should i try n get small things for him?
PS- it would be nice to have a guys point of view on this also
2006-11-22 02:01:01 · 2 answers · asked by Chelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Material things don't matter! Although it's very nice to get them, you shouldn't feel like you have to give him the same amount of stuff he gives you. Just make sure he knows how you feel about him. If you express that you also feel bad b/c you can't get him that much stuff as he gets you, and he's a good bf, he'll understand and <33 u even more for your honesty.
2006-11-22 02:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the money thing you don't have a lot of control over. and he may feel that it is necessary to be with you, some of us are insecure in that way despite whatever anyone tells us differently. if those aren't things that you would necessarily do then don't do it out of obligation or guilt, allow it to happen on it's own and do something that only you can do for him, that he couldn't, or wouldn't think to do for himself. you have to find your own place in this relationship and figure out what it is that you're bringing to the table to truly answer that question.
2006-11-22 02:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋