so my boyfreind and i have a long distance relationship and im going to see him soon before xmas. and we wont be able to see each other untill january because we are both going to different places this xmas. i always get upset when he and i say goodbye after we see each other and i know this time it will be harder for me to hold back my feelings since i wont see him for even longer than usual. is there anything anyone can suggest to take my mind away from this when we say goodbye?? all comments apreciated :)
2006-11-21 07:04:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gosh I know how you feel...I hate saying bye to my guy too..I mean we live an hour away..but still when you really care about someone its always hard...try to have a picture with you at all times..so that way when you miss him you can kiss his photograph...or write him a little note and mail it..which ever way its always going to be hard to say bye bye..even if you live with someone..
2006-11-21 07:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I deal with the same problem when I leave my friend. Every time, it seems it gets easier. This time, do not try to think about the next time you will see him. Just enjoy being with him. And try to not prolong the leaving process. Try keeping your things all packed together so once it comes time to leave, you don't have to slowly get ready to leave. Give him a quick hug and kiss, preferably around other people. It will help when you feel like you can't cry because other people are there.
2006-11-21 15:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by KJH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem once upon a time. I know this sounds cheesy, but I kept a journal about the way I felt. By the time it was no longer a long distance relationship, I gave him the journal as a small sentimental gift. Mushy, but he apprectiated it....and nonetheless, saw my feelings about him all written out.
2006-11-21 15:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by dollface_1125 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. Instead of seeing him as going away, remember what you did with the time you spent together. Think about other things, go out with friends. Time flies when you're busy and having fun. And then you'll be back in his arms before you know it.
2006-11-21 15:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Paola G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should work at making it a not so long distance relationship.
2006-11-21 15:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by besitos2610 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think about how much fun you had and how excited you are to see him next time...
2006-11-21 15:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋