Sometimes in relationships the chemistry changes between two people, and I want to know what is changing? I don't understand what happens that makes one not "not into someone" so quickly.
2006-11-21 05:00:11 · 7 answers · asked by sweetie pie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BE careful. There are times in relationships where this seems to be a lack of chemistry. Sometimes you don't feel as hot for the person as you once did. A lot of times this happens when the relationship has started to settle down. At first you are in euphoria, nothing is greater. The kissing, the time together, the sex, it all starts to feel a little different after a while. Its normal. In some relationships it slighty goes away for a bit. In others it slightly decreases for good. Its a matter of getting comfortable with the person and knowing that you are in a SERIOUS relationship and not one just based on sex and kissing.
The key though is to note whether there is a total lack of chemistry or not. If all the chemistry is gone (and this takes a lot of work to figure out because sometimes it may seem that way but then you miss the person when they are gone.) but if its all gone, then you really shouldn't put you both through it. If there is still some chemistry, work for the relationship. Tell your partner you want to make things work. You love them but want to regain the magic. Maybe you seek counselling. Maybe you take a trip/vacation together alone.
All in all relationships are tricky to figure out and take a lot of work but those who are willing to put in the work in their relationship are the ones that end up happy.
GL
2006-11-21 05:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if there is chemistry in the beginning it may be physical attraction.
After you get to know someone you see that you don't have much in common so you really lose the umph.
Physical attraction is good but you have to have common ground ask questions and better yet do what the other person enjoys show that you are interested in what they enjoy doing.
If it is meant to be it will be if not find someone who you can have fun with...
When you love someone and it is love you enjoy being with that person and your love deepens.It gets better maybe that isn't the right person for you.
2006-11-21 05:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by shanky36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chemistry could happens in different way, if it is only sexual attraction, it will not last, but if it goes with everything i mean similar thoughts, the same way to see the life, same interests, like to talk, discuss everything together, good kisses...then that is chemistry that will last and develop in real love
2006-11-21 05:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by lovetoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a grown guy there is not any such ingredient as SLIPPING. have you ever tried to easily be romantic or take the reins in that area for a on a similar time as? as quickly as she feels the spark it is going to spark you too. i will understand the ordinary stuff. We in order that ensue to be in an industry that enables some exhilaration. possibly that's what you prefer. some exhilaration! A interest possibly?
2016-10-22 12:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by wach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People mature, their interests change, they move in different directions. You have to decide how much you are willing to do to try to reconnect with that chemistry. If people have kids, lets hope they try hard!
2006-11-21 05:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating, maybe that is just God's way to tell you that he is not the one for you.
If you are married, maybe you need to take more time with them and rebuild the chemistry.
Peace!
2006-11-21 05:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on
2006-11-21 05:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋