my friends never do what i want to do!!! in the group im just another person to satnd there making people think there popular and im sick of it!!! the push me and hit me and tell me what i can and cant do!!! i told them i was gonna be a rocksatr and they said i caouldnt!!!! they always make me feel like a failer and i dont know how to tell them im sick of it and im no longer there friends!!!
2006-11-05 01:08:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
These are not your Friends. You may think they are but they are not. Friends encourage, uplift and support each other. Friends don't humiliate, step on or make you feel bad. Find another group to hang with. Show me your friends and I will show you your future.
2006-11-05 01:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by clb199 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um do you even know what friends means? Please get a dictionary.
You need to leave them NOW. Start by not following the next time they completely ignor you. In stead go do what you wanted to. They may call you a loser, and you might be a alone for a while, but at least you are doing what you want. you are also showing that you are above them and are stronger than them. Create your own style, find friends who apreciate you, and most of all be your self. if you are yourself (not some fake person) and you have self confidence, people will start begging to be your friends. If those other people try and insult you just remember that they feel powerless, and ignore them, they will fade soon
Good Luck, future rockstar, I know you will be great!!
2006-11-05 09:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by jst4di 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump their sorry behinds, quick like.
Get some good friends around you who are interested in the same things you are interested in. If you continue with this your future friendships could be marred by people making you feel bad. Get rid of that type of person now, when you are young.
I will tell you from experience that when friends start to do what you described, they are not your true friends and are not to be trusted.
2006-11-05 10:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM these aren't friends! You can try not doing things with them, cutting them off slowly if these are popular people in school. Try to find other people with the same interest you have & do things with them. Your old so called friends will get the message & you will start to feel much better with friends who have similar interest & don't enjoy getting their kicks from making people feel bad.
2006-11-05 09:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by KAT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them darling. I'm 14 and don't let people push me around. If being yourself isn't good enough for them then, they're still stuck in their child mode. Just move on, if they claim to be big kids, they won't make a big deal out of it. Just dump them in the gutter and find others like you who share the same interests.
2006-11-05 09:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by just another kid. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing kid ....don't let anybody tell you what you can or cant do except your parents...but if you really want to be a rock star you have to study music really hard....read music notes...play an instrument...plus go to school ...take up composing....poetry....and maybe even go to university for more classes so get to work and don't let anybody or anything get in your way
2006-11-05 09:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first off, they r not real friends for sure! one of my friends was like this b4 she met me and what she told me what she did. she said that she went up to them, slapped them in the face and then told them that they needed to stop, or she was leaving. and then she decided to leave. then she went and met some other friends that are totally gerrr-eat to her. (so u don't have to do the slapping part, but u know what i mean :) )
2006-11-05 09:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by H A N N A H(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kid, with "friends" like that, you don't need enemies!
Wow, they are pulling you down to their level and you are not falling for it. Pretty smart, kiddo, pretty smart.
And you can be a rockstar if you want--it all takes hard work and dedication to the dream.
Good luck!
2006-11-05 09:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop hanging out with them, and start hanging out with new people. They will get the hint.
2006-11-05 09:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave them......as the quote goes, "Be who you are and say what you feel becuase those who matter dont mind and those who mind dont matter!" I hope you find friends who like you for who you are :)
2006-11-05 09:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋