1st off boys take longer to potty train so it could be 6 or so more months until he is.
I understand that he is going to school but in his free time he should be working part time to help out with the finances instead of playing on the computer. The childs father should be spending some time with him and making him a part of his life when in fact it appears that he is not and once again letting the computer take up his time.
Have a talk with him and let him know your frustrations. If all else fails then move out
2006-10-31 02:07:29
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answered by Mike 6
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This guy sounds like an immature selfish jerk. Honestly he has some nerve laying down rules to you when he acts like he is still a teenager. I think the best thing for you and your son, would be to move out, you both deserve SO much better out of life! I mean if he begrudges five minutes of his time with his son, then in my opinion then he doesnt deserve to have one. I know this may sound harsh, but I was once in a similar situation and I know how difficult things are. Keep looking in the papers, and as soon as possible get yourself out of there and give your son the kind of life you both deserve A GREAT ONE!!! I'll be thinking of you, Good luck.
2006-10-31 02:06:01
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answered by Pauline N 3
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Okay, I'm sure you were aware of his behavior BEFORE you moved in with him right? Because ain't no way he just started acting ignorant like that. So therefore, well whatever you need to move you and your baby outta there. Go back to where you came from or something, I mean get you a job find yo baby a spot a daycare and do yo thang, go from there. I mean you not gettin nowhere by stayin wit dat dude..so forget about him, get child support and live life.
2006-10-31 02:04:43
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answered by Tia 2
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WOW if he not trying well time for you to get your self together now how is it your fault that the baby lost his space in daycare did you not get there with the proper paper work in on time these days you have to stay on your A game when comes down to the school thing. perhaps before you go to get child support try talking to him and explain the your child needs him not money wise but every thing else and it will help for him to teach him to potty train. Give him ultimatums and see what happens before leaving. And try to include him but say hey I want to do something I need to know if your available to be with us.
2006-10-31 02:15:56
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answered by LIZA P 3
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I feel sorry for you and your son. You both deserve a lot more love and attention than this guy is giving either of you. Do you have a relative you can stay with for awhile? Until you get on your feet? You should definitely end it with this guy. He sounds really immature and uninvolved in his own child's life. Move out and Get the child support! Good luck.
2006-10-31 02:03:47
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answered by Christabelle 6
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i really think that u and ur son deserve better than what he is giving the both of u. and i know how u feel because my sister is in the same situation, her and her baby daddy have been 2gether 4 2years and they have a 1 year old daughter name tia, and at first every thing was goood, but now all he do is buy jordan shoes, games (video) and plays them, i mean it is so bad now that their baby is so sick she got 2 ear infections, cold all in her chest and the chicken pox all at the same time and do he care NO so now she is leaving him moving out with the baby and putting him on child support. plz follow in her steps and do waht is right for the baby.
2006-10-31 02:08:28
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answered by princesspooh1987 2
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You and your son need to get out of there. Take him to court for child support and he will be forced to get a job. He sounds very selfish and immature. Your son does not need a role model like that. Good Luck!
2006-10-31 02:14:59
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answered by Michelle 4
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first if you need time away from your little one get a part time job. secondly the best thing for your child is both parents. maybe you should try counsling with your b/f and work things out. it also sounds maybe you are suffering from depression you might see a doctor for that. as far as child support you said the father is not working then i'm guessing he wouldn't be able to pay support payments anyway and even if so it wouldn;'t be enough for you to live on. I encourage you to try and work things out
2006-10-31 02:06:38
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answered by wendy 2
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It sounds like you are very unhappy in this situation. I don't like tosuggest to anyone that they should leave a relationship especially when a child is involved, but this doesn't sound like a good environment for anyone.
Ask yourself this question- Am I better off with him or without him? This is a life altering question-be honest. Most importantly take care of yourself so you can take care of your son, it sounds like you are all he has.
Be well
2006-10-31 02:10:59
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answered by Fresherson19 2
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you need to get out on your own - and yes try to get child support, but don;t count on it. this guy sounds like a real loser.
better for you to be on your own living a modest and peaceful life with your child than in this negative situation. You will be happier in the end and in the long run so will your son.
good luck to you
2006-10-31 02:04:28
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answered by island3girl 6
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